Thanks, anonymoushermit! Is there a way to tell if they are just testing you vs. they just don't give a fuck about you? Allie's comment scared me honestly.
i would be blowing up his phone lol 😛 but i dont really think that's appropriate. However, if i'm desperate and crying i am going to blow up the phone. I know for a fact im kind of annoying desperately wanting his love to come back.
Do what you feel is good for you ^^
Yeah calling him won't do anything really. But I guess we'll see what happens. I may decide to meet in person and just gauge how he feels, otherwise I'll just talk with him on the phone and get to the bottom of this. Thanks for your advice, girl! ❤️
I'm sorry you are still dealing with this. Can I ask why you think you're a burden to him?
Not your fault at all, girl! I was really really hopeful before when you did your tarot reading for me and the cards were a good sign. But lately, the lack of contact and all along with Allie's comments really make me question all of this. ?? Would doing a horary for this make sense? Like should I ask if I need to break things off with him or something?
Thanks so much, love!! ❤️❤️
I will do one if you want me to, but I really don't know if that's what you need right now. I honestly think he does love you- I don't know a single Scorpio who would say that if it weren't true. So, he loves you, rest assured - no horary needed with regard to that.
We need to figure out why he is withdrawing. You said you think you are a burden to him. I am wondering if that is the reason he withdrew. I think it would help to analyze why you think you are a burden. Once you know exactly why, you can work to change that somehow. Or at least change how you think about yourself.
One thing I know about Scorpio is they get turned off when other people play games. They will withdraw if someone is not upfront about whatever... its like Scorpio senses when things are shifty, tricky, not straightforward.. They like to know whats going on. It's tricky because you don't want to be too revealing because they like mystery, yet there is a fine line there. They are suspicious when you go over the line. They are seriously, subtly contradictive.
So, maybe you really need to discuss the reason you feel like a burden to him with him and be really honest if you haven't done it yet... or if you haven't done it in a straightforward way. This will take some courage, but you have Aries, you got this.
Let me know if you need a horary or tarot, I don't mind doing it.
Btw, I am not suggesting you are being shifty or not straightforward, but it's possible that is how it seems to him. That is only a possiblity. I don't know enough to say for sure, but it is a strong possibility. It could be either there isn't enough mystery (he's bored) or there is too much (trickery) and he is trying to figure it out.