Thanks Allie! How are you certain he's just playing with me?
You are welcome ❤ I'm glad I can help!
"As for the question of whether he loves me or not- are you certain? Based on what Allie said, is he not just dragging me along or something else?"
Based on his actions- not talking to you for two weeks- it would appear, on the surface, that he isn't interested, so I can see why someone would think that, yes. But just because it looks like something on the surface, doesn't make it true. You are involved in this, and you can't even figure it out, (and I don't think you're dumb.) I think people have good intentions when giving advice, but discrimination is important when recieving advice- take only advice that uplifts and resonates as truth. When I was younger, I wasn't good at this either. I was super naive. You do not have to accept what anyone says... not what I say, not anyone else. Not suggesting to be rude, just thank them and move on, detach.
What I really want to know is if you love him. You said you aren't calling or messaging him. Why?
I looked at the horary but I really want to know that first.
If I may add an unsolicited Scorpio perspective (hoping that adds some legitimacy) why don't you talk to him? We're weird beings but entirely capable of mature communication. I would not be ok with his behavior either and you owe it to yourself to tell him that you need more in a relationship than the idea of a commitment. If he's not able or willing to be your equal partner then truly you deserve better. But closure is a really important element that seems to have lost favor. Do it for yourself, don't leave any energy invested in a relationship in even a small way. All the best, no matter how this plays out you win.
Welcome ftzkelley.
You are awesome, girl!! ?❤️❤️ I tend to sway based on things that other people say lol, so makes me question things. I don't really know what to think exactly.
I think I love him? I mean, there's a lot of things that I've done for him and all so I feel like I definitely like him a lot or something to that extent. I don't want to call or contact him to wait out until he takes the initiative. I want to test whether he cares at all. Let me know what you see from the horary though. Thank you so much, girl! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much, ftzkelley! Is it too stubborn of me to want to wait it out until he initiates contact with me? I just want to see how long he can disappear for. Thanks for your advice though!