Lila31 said
You are awesome, girl!! ?❤️❤️ I tend to sway based on things that other people say lol, so makes me question things. I don't really know what to think exactly. 

I think I love him? I mean, there's a lot of things that I've done for him and all so I feel like I definitely like him a lot or something to that extent. I don't want to call or contact him to wait out until he takes the initiative. I want to test whether he cares at all. Let me know what you see from the horary though. Thank you so much, girl! ❤️❤️

  

Geez, it concerns me that you aren't sure if you love him. If you don't love him with all your heart and soul, is it worth figuring out why he's withdrawing.  Do you only want to be with him if he loves you, regardless of whether you love him too? You originally posted that you wanted to end things with him. Do you really want to end it? This changes things.

Lila31 said
@la sirena: Hey girl, I think I have the question for this first horary. 

Question is: how come Scorpy has been silent for the last 2-3 weeks?

Let me know what you see, thanks! 

  

As for the horary, he is the Sun in Leo in the turned 12th house. You are Saturn in Cap in the 12th house.  You are both hiding. From what you've told us, we know that to be the case already. You aren't contacting him and he isn't contacting you.  You're both being stubborn. Youre both in your own signs- a significator in its own sign is self-focused, sometimes that can mean stubborn, unyeilding, not bending to anyone else. 

The Sun is in the detriment of Saturn. But the Sun is also in the term and face of Saturn. He is conflicted. The mixed receptions show ambivilance. He has mixed feelings. This is common when you love someone but are upset with them for some reason. If I had to guess, I would say he is upset that you are not contacting.  He feels like he is the only one who has the right to be that way.  In other words he doesnt have you on a string and he doesnt like it.  As twisted as it seems, he may think you not contacting shows him you dont love him.  You are both standing your ground and both of you are doing the ezact same thing to each other, but he has a double standard- he thinks only he gets to "test". 

Jupiter is in the Triplicity of Sun and in the Exaltation of Venus (your secondary significator) so it appears jupiter has some power over this issue. Jupiter is ruling the 4th house of the relationship (H10) . The 4th is considered the ending of something.  You guys may decide to move on from each other.  It may feel like a natural closing of a cycle.  Like your relationship has just naturally run its course and its time to move on. Not necessarily negative.

The Moon next aspects Mars on the Desc.  This looks troublesome, not gonna lie. Mars can be very harsh and the Moon does not like Mars at all- he Moon is in the detriment of Mars.  This relationship might end.  I hope not, if that's not what you want, but Mars on the Desc can mean breakup. It doesnt have to mean that- it can also mean a fight or argument,  but it looks like something somewhat harsh.

Lol is it normal or weird to just not know how you feel about someone? Like you think you know, but you don't know? If he doesn't love me, then I can shut this down before we go further in the woods, if you know what I mean. I'm Asian, so culturally, we don't bring significant others to show to our parents until we are really really serious (like long term potential). I can't bring him to my parents because I just honestly don't see it (marriage). Also my parents know about me mentioning about him before and they think he's trash so I'm scared of how they'll take to this whole thing. However, Scorpy has said some things that made me reconsider and explore this potential. Hence why we're at this point. 

But from your horary analysis, are you saying we are going to break up then? Should I just end things with him now? 

Thank you, love!! ❤️❤️

Well obviously my "normal" isn't going to be the same as your "normal". It is concerning to me that you don't see him as marriage material...that's fine if you only want a friend with benefits, but for something more serious and commited, it's concerning. I don't know enough about the guy to say for sure if he is "trash", as your parents say. We just know he's a Scorpio and he has withdrawn, we don't know much about the dynamics of your relationship.  I would say, you should first and foremost, follow your heart. Second, as a lot of other people also said, I think you really need to have an honest, mature conversation with him. You may have to be the one to initiate.  If anything for closure.  I wish you all the best! ❤

Thanks, love! I guess once we have that conversation, hopefully more will be clear. 

This is always so challenging for me to figure out what to do lol. 

Thanks again! ❤️

What did you reply when he told you he loves you? 

In my experience with Scorpios, when they say they love, they really do. 

Now, I don't know this guy... I'm just wondering what caused him to redraw. There must be a reason/ explanation for this behavior. Did you talk?