I'm a male who is one year older, mond you.
So between 2015-2012 my sister didn't wish to talk to me and spoke back with one word.
Even after that for years she spoke to me angrily and reacted to me angrily.
She put me down a lot over the years.
She bossed me and my father on Saturdays.
She does twist things.
She said "why do I want to know what music is playing" on the TV. When she had knowledge of it.
She acted emotionally a few times.
She tells info about me easily when others secretly ask.
She got angry about something the other time.
She said she can't get a proper wedding. Why splash out 50k on a wedding and a party which is up to her, she didn't need a party.
I did feel she lacked integrity.
She made me cry a few times.
She's got everything mind you.
Why doesn't she says people asked about this and that about me?
I reported a relative to the police twice, who could get a warning.
She didn't care before.
She didn't say nothing to that relative, thus not standing up to me.
She can't even say that relative would get a warning to that person or others.
Doesn't she say nothing?
These things will come back to haunt her.
From the chart, what can you get from ger behaviour? Who is she to control, not her life, not her right, not her say, taking away liberties. Taking away my dignity.
I was crying. My work colleague read all this and said she's a mean person.
She's very irresponsible and dishonorable. People will ask, well that relative bullied, abused, more and your brother told us he reported him twice and he would get a warning.
People will try to control and I said no to her.
They'll say, why don't you say nothing, say nothing to them with what he's told us?
She's gifted the power back.
There’s a lot of challenging Mars energy in this chart—aggression, control, perhaps not recognizing one’s impact on others, with Neptune involved—and some difficult 3rd house placements—siblings and communication is relevant here.
Sibling relationships can be very complicated. Hope things get better for you.
The Venus Pluto opposition could see her degrade the other person... not that there is no other option. I'd also say, when things come around, they'll come around hard.
Thank you buendia and Elsa for your analysis and insights.
the shadow side of aries is difficult, hot headed and harsh and with stellium capricorn squaring her aries, that's cold/harsh. sounds ruthless, but what i can discern, she is having a difficult time calming herself. take a breather, you can't change who they are, just walk away if you can so you are not in danger of any mental ill health that may come of this.