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Scorpio men - afraid of commitment

anonymoushermit
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Opalina said

 The last 2 photos its obvious they are hookers, The first one I think is really cute. Hmm and I am an old lady  

Yeah, the first one is tamed compared to the hookers below, LOL.

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Candela said

But he has at least had (not certain of that status right now) a very longstanding roommate, though. This has stirred many rumors on his sexual orientation, and sure enough, the breakups from model girlfriends have been almost too neat.  

Hm that's what I keep hearing. but I think he just hasn't found the one. I don't believe that he'd be afraid to say he is gay or bisexual if goes that way. One of the supermodels (cancer sun Giselle)  married a Leo sun, (interestingly they are both libra dominant too).

Fibuceus said
 I think there are too many factors in life and even in a person's natal chart to really pinpoint a reason for someone's lack of commitment. I know that I personally have ALOT of issues with commitment and Scorpio is my dominant sign. I've always blamed my Gemini Venus on my issues with commitment but I think that this is only a small part. Pluto is conjunct my Scorpio ascendant and I feel like this is the source of my power complex. I always need to be in control of my life, in every way. The hardest part of being in a relationship is that you need to compromise and to me compromising gives the other person power over me. Don't get me wrong, in other parts of my life I am very laid back and easy going. But when it comes to close romantic relationships the thought of a girlfriend feeling like she has any kind of control over me is terrifying. Don't worry I'm already aware of how neurotic I am xD Another aspect of my chart which I feel adds to my relationship troubles is my Mars. It's in Aries....so that added to my intense Scorpio aspect gives me an insanely high sex drive. And when my Venus in Gemini is factored in it makes me get bored very easily. So all in all I do not do well in relationships lol  

I agree with you. there are way too many factors, both in charts, upbringing and experiences too. I've seen Gemini sun women with Scorpio sun men all the time when I research, and many of those Scorpio sun men have Gemini moon or are libra dominant. (Dylan McDermott, with Maggie Q,  and there is Mia Sera (Gemini sun/scorpio moon) who married Brian Henson, the famous Jim Henson - puppeteer's son, Scorpio sun/Gemini moon.

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I always find that Scorpios sometimes need too much space, dated two of them. Maybe I'm a needy, psychotic, gay. Oh well!

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orchidorchid said
Honestly, when Scorps are ready to envelop you in their claws, they dive right in.

When Scorps are hesitant, their chart is either full of air, or you're not their type.  

 

Hi Orchidorchild

Im new to this site. My entire life I had bad luck in love. I recently started seeing a scorpio guy for about 2 months and everything has been great. We just spent the weekend together and he disapperared on me yesterday. He usually texted me within seconds but yesterday he just stopped responding. I know he has a stressful job and he also likes to drink. I read this is common for Scorpios to disappear but I would like your feeback based on our chart, . Looking for relationship guidance; any information is appreciated!

Thank you in advance. Smile

Miguelina: Franklyn: Composite:
Sun: 6 Lib 51 14 Sco 27 25 Lib 39
Moo: 28 Lib 55 1 Sco 50 0 Sco 22
Mer: 1 Sco 50 7 Sco 07 4 Sco 28
Ven: 19 Sco 53 8 Lib 47 29 Lib 20
Mar: 17 Leo 28 18 Sag 29 17 Lib 59
Jup: 17 Lib 42 1 Lib 58 9 Lib 50
Sat: 12 Lib 05 5 Lib 28 8 Lib 47
Ura: 27 Sco 23 25 Sco 09 26 Sco 16
Nep: 22 Sag 17 21 Sag 03 21 Sag 40
Plu: 23 Lib 34 22 Lib 35 23 Lib 05
Nod: 29 Can 09 15 Leo 50 7 Leo 29
Asc: 18 Gem 59 25 Cap 48 7 Ari 23
MC: 7 Pis 50 19 Sco 30 7 Cap 23
2nd: 18 Can 59 25 Aqu 48 7 Tau 23
3rd: 18 Leo 59 25 Pis 48 7 Gem 23
5th: 18 Lib 59 25 Tau 48 7 Leo 23
6th: 18 Sco 59 25 Gem 48 7 Vir 23

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Miguelina said

 

Hi Orchidorchild

Im new to this site. My entire life I had bad luck in love. I recently started seeing a scorpio guy for about 2 months and everything has been great. We just spent the weekend together and he disapperared on me yesterday. He usually texted me within seconds but yesterday he just stopped responding. I know he has a stressful job and he also likes to drink. I read this is common for Scorpios to disappear but I would like your feeback based on our chart, . Looking for relationship guidance; any information is appreciated!

Thank you in advance. Smile
Miguelina: Franklyn: Composite:
Sun: 6 Lib 51 14 Sco 27 25 Lib 39
Moo: 28 Lib 55 1 Sco 50 0 Sco 22
Mer: 1 Sco 50 7 Sco 07 4 Sco 28
Ven: 19 Sco 53 8 Lib 47 29 Lib 20
Mar: 17 Leo 28 18 Sag 29 17 Lib 59
Jup: 17 Lib 42 1 Lib 58 9 Lib 50
Sat: 12 Lib 05 5 Lib 28 8 Lib 47
Ura: 27 Sco 23 25 Sco 09 26 Sco 16
Nep: 22 Sag 17 21 Sag 03 21 Sag 40
Plu: 23 Lib 34 22 Lib 35 23 Lib 05
Nod: 29 Can 09 15 Leo 50 7 Leo 29
Asc: 18 Gem 59 25 Cap 48 7 Ari 23
MC: 7 Pis 50 19 Sco 30 7 Cap 23
2nd: 18 Can 59 25 Aqu 48 7 Tau 23
3rd: 18 Leo 59 25 Pis 48 7 Gem 23
5th: 18 Lib 59 25 Tau 48 7 Leo 23
6th: 18 Sco 59 25 Gem 48 7 Vir 23  

Hot 'n cold. Welcome to the club of Scorpio chasers.

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Pearl said
A Scorpio man that's afraid of commitment ... put their passion & focus on a lover, but then disband when getting too close. Why?

I realize there can be a million factors, just wanted to hear some general responses...

 

Scared of getting hurt? 

Enjoys being a playing the game too much? 

What are some of your experiences/observations?  

Because they are traumatized. Read the book by Donna Cunningham for more insight, if you have the time.

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