Here's the chart, if anyone's interested....

Mom has Venus in Taurus.

Dad has Venus in Libra.

Mom likes to spend money on comforts and collect jewelry. She likes to present professionally.

Dad is very airy about money/spending, but he likes to take care of his appearance. He likes to talk with people and read things/news off the internet.

Dad likes to mix with people. He has a stellium in Leeb.

Mom likes to mix too, but she's Aries. She mixes like an Aries, which means she sounds combative when she talks, and you can hear her across the room.

In short, I'd say, my mom likes Taurean things/activities and my dad likes Libran things/activities.

I'm Venus in Libra, hubs is Venus in Taurus.

This is easy.  I decorate the inside of the house, choose the colors,  organize the entertaining and dinners and table.

He takes care of the outside- yard and  flowers. Grows the tomatoes and sets up the music outside in warm weather.

It's pretty compatible. Although, aesthetically speaking, I do have much better taste. He likes a lot of brown and crappy  construction and my sense of color is really good and balanced and I love workmanship and nice materials.

Good to see you, Pixie. You've been missed!

Thanks guys for the responses so far. These are some differences I'm noticing:

Venus in Libra:  Unabashedly romantic and bubbly. Gives the air of being quick to move on, which is scary as fuck for Venus in Taurus.

Venus in Taurus:  Slow to trust, slow to open up. Once one loves you, it's tough for them to move on.

Both:  Hopeless romantics

Venus in Libra: Airy decor. Lots of white. Everything matches. Very clean. Over does it with air freshener/detergent/everything that smells "good". Simple aesthetic. Physically aesthetic... concerned with how his place looks, more than practicality, utility, and comfort. Still manages to be comfortable (Moon in Taurus). Art on his walls is typicalish, sentimental.

Venus in Taurus:  I like textured, mismatchy interiors, I'm an art collector.. a lot of it is weird, sometimes morbid, surreal, or sexual. I have an air of nostalgia, but I also love ultra modern. No interest in cookie cutter! Also, monochrome colors with vivid brights. I hate clutter, but despise spartan spaces. I am obsessed with textures and layers. If something is not natural (wood, steel, wool, cotton, leather)... I won't touch it *snort*. I am very utilitarian and I don't like having *stuff* for the sake of stuff (But, I do like stuff *grins*). I like greenery and the color green. Also dark woods and warm Danish teaks. Won't get anywhere near synthetic air fresheners or detergents. I want my room to smell like line hung laundry and citrusy essential oils. I also LOVE rose, ylang ylang, ceder, and the smell of Argan oil. Grassy smells, like alfalfa, and cinnamon brooms! haha

Both: Obsessed with creating a happy, aesthetic, comfortable space. 

Venus in Libra:  Wears bright, happy colors. Clean-cut All-American. Very "classic" dresser. Always matches. Likes to stay contemporary, and relevant. Not exactly daring when it comes to fashion. Kind of tight fitting (but not ill fitting) clothes. Gets all of his stuff tailored. I would describe him as polished.

Venus in Taurus: I wear LOTS of black and grey (he doesn't like this haha). I appreciate edgy, darker styles. Lots of solids. I also layer heavily... lots of layers of Cashmere, Lace, Wool, Cotton, Silk... things that feel good on my skin. I like to drape things over my body, because I'm tall and lanky. But, I have crazy curves, and the Leeb loses his cool when I put on something tight fitting. I also like exaggeration- thick chunky knits, oversized sweaters with massive cowlnecks, multiple, differently textured scarves, oversized buckles, studs, giant bows in my hair, etc.,. I have a pretty strong edge when it comes to fashion (This is Gem Sun or Aries Moon talking I bet). I like to take risks, and wear somewhat avant garde pieces. I don't really dress revealing... but when I do, it's normally a statement piece, and it's either boobs, midriff, or short skirt/shorts/dress... Never more than one at a time. I am most comfortable covered up.

Both: Dress really well

Venus in Libra:  He's an actor/writer. (Very visceral, airy arts)

Venus in Taurus: I'm a photographer/musician. (Very physical arts)

Both: Are skilled artists.

Venus in Libra:  Played football in college. Eats a lot of health foods. Works out a lot. (He's a personal trainer and has the body of an adonis). Has no qualms about eating chicken and protein powder shakes every day. (I would kill myself). He cooks quite well (Taurus moon), and admitted to prying me with comfort food to try to get me out of my shell! haha. He uses naturopathic medicine.

Venus in Taurus:  I'm a runner, surfer, hiker type. I love grappeling/fighting sports (aries moon) (touching other people, rolling on the ground... taurus). I stay naturally fit, because I'm active, but I don't need to look ideal. In terms of food, I love to cook. I love exotic, involved dishes. I also eat organic everything, so I am health conscious, but I am very into traditional foods, and not afraid of natural fats and cholesterols. I study nutrition and naturopathic medicine.

Both: Are health conscience, both stay in great shape, both are good cooks, and both are into holistics.