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What is the hardest aspect bond in synastry to break?

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mirandagarrett1992 said
What are some signs of obsession from the planet person? I always thought pluto was obsessive ? I'm so confused lol

 

It seems all the blogs and write-ups like to pin the obsesssion on pluto person? I don't know, this was not the case at all with me nor have I EVER seen this the case in real life. Most of the astro forums are women (and a couple of guys) wondering why they feel so INTENSE towards pluto, its very rarely the other way around. In fact if I feel a repulsion towards someone whether male or female I always check to see if my pluto is somehow aspecting one of their personal planets and if I have a crazy attraction to someone whether sexual or friendly one of the first things I look for is where the other persons pluto is in aspect to my personal planets.

 

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and nothing is ever set in stone. I am only speaking from personal experience and what I have seen.

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Julia said

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Julia said
emotional devastation is pluto to venus, moon, mars or sun… pluto power and almost never mutual give and take, usually its the planet person left in emotional devastation.

w-o-a-h! That was/is a loaded paragraph! I experienced my pluto conj their pluto that involved a t-square (pluto, venus, moon) Lord have mercy! I was left in emotional devastation. Was h.e.l.l. to pull off that one! confused I have my sanity back.

sounds intense!

AND super uncomfortable…they were seemingly never satisfied!

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Sunny, that's a boatload of pluto! Im super curious.. how long did it take you to get over that one?

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I can vouch for the Pluto aspects to personal planets, especially combined with 7th or 8th house overlays, as well as Sun/Moon aspects. 

I'm experiencing something similar with somebody...  he has really gotten under my skin.

His Sun conjunct my Moon in my 8th house

His Venus in my 7th opposite my Pluto in the 1st

His Moon in my 8th trine my Venus

His Uranus square my Mars

His Eros square my Mars

His Mars opposite my Neptune

His Juno conjunct my Venus

(all of the aspects are between 0-1 degrees)

It's hard to pick what is the most binding aspect, but I feel the Pluto-Venus opposition very intensely... I alternate between feelings of anger and wanting to destroy him, to a deep and erotic love and wanting to tear his clothes off in the middle of a conversation. It's often quite uncomfortable and tense between us, but something addictive about the interaction that keeps us getting sucked back in. I almost feel powerless against it.

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I also agree that Saturn with the Moon or Venus is a very strong bond.  There is a mutual responsibility that is shared to maintain the relationship, good or bad.  I think the Saturn connection is very karmic and sometimes a debt is owed by one of the people in the relationship.

 

Pluto with Moon or Venus is also a very strong bond, but a tricky one.  It is very seductive and draws you in.  If you live for intensity in a relationship, this is for you!  The Pluto enhancement of either of these planets will give you Heaven or Hell.

 

On a lighter note, I also like Venus/Sun conjunctions and Venus/Venus conjunctions.  They are both very loving. 

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