I have Mars in Pisces. An astrologer I once knew asked me if I had ever dated any musicians, but it never happened. For one thing, I don't like anything loud so I can imagine him jamming w/ his friends or going to his gigs would do me in. I like creative people though, but quieter ones.
My first ex was a blues/ jazz guitarist. We lived together for 8 years; when we started out I was 17, he 27. Fifth house Neptune and Mars in Scorpio. I seek creative types, either through arts and music or marginalized life experience. I also think Pisces involved - my Chiron is there 9th house. Both of us were Libra Sun. We split up amicably; he killed himself a few years later. He had suffered deep deep lows and manic highs.
Im sorry to hear that TCD.
Since I sang in a band when I was young I did get involved with the bass player.
Its really not good to do that, as it was what drove me to quit the band.
An actor might be kind of fun to date.
Dated men who've played instruments, and one musician, though he wasn't with a band when we dated.
He had lived a hard and fast life, and was really suffering the consequences when we met, and it didn't work out. Bad timing.
We were both Libra risings, that was cool. I don't know if I would date an active musician though. I want a good, simple life.
If he can pretend to sing while he's all suited up for an intellectual debate.....call me!