I'm sorry. I can't read a dual wheel and the astro charts... my eye has used my program for almost 30 years and they just swirl in my head. This is why I did not weigh in. Also bad pain, leaks everywhere and house guests coming tomorrow.
Didn’t scare me off, I was just waiting for some quiet alone time when I could be a little more thoughtful in responding.
It’s interesting you mentioned the Pluto contacts, because the first thing I noticed was the sweetness of all the inner planet contacts. Ooooooof:)). I fricking love being around people who have the same Mercury as I do, especially in work. It’s nice to not have to work super hard to understand or be understood in a place where you already need to navigate the intricacies of other individuals, which often includes different styles of communicating.
On that note, the (north) nodal contacts stand out to me. That’s super cool, and I think your presence probably models effective (Scorpionic) communication, whereas their Mars likely reinforces how you assert your self, define yourself, especially if you’ve ever doubted that.
Jupiter/Mars conjunction is soooooooo hot. Seeing it is bringing back memories lol. It’s just really passionate. I’ve only had it in romantic situations, but I imagine having it with anyone indicates a united passion or ideal, whatever that might be.
I was Pluto in a Pluto/Moon square once, and they eventually thanked me (after ghosting me) for pointing out their too cool for school detachment. They had the square natally, though, so I think my presence just reminded them of what they thought their weakness were. This person might feel their sensitivity is a weakness around you or not something you fully appreciate, whether it’s true or not. The square isn’t super tight, though. Scorpio and Cancer can be funny with each other. They are both sooooo sensitive, but don’t always recognize or honor that in the other.
Gotta stop for now, hopefully that gives ya something to chew on.
@buendia Thank you so much for this! Your posts are just amazing to me, I just love you Buendia💜 You are a light in the darkness.
There is a lot of really amazing things that I enjoy with this person. I never considered the nodal contacts. They have never been a huge part of my study but I do tend to attract that kind of synastry.
I think this synastry looks good. His Moon in Cancer in your 7th is really good, especially as it trines the Scorpio. There’s a comfort there. I think this is more intense to you than it is him. This energy is like a hurricane as it’s being brought to you via the 7th- as in the animus. There is a potential for major obsession but since you’re older and more mature you can temper that. The most beneficial thing I see in this synastry is actually his Saturn opposite your Venus. His Saturn in Pisces will support your Venus as Venus exalts in Pisces. He can help you with self-criticism and help you to learn to love yourself.
@sirena-oceana Awesome thank you. He has helped me with my self criticism and encourages ne to go easy on myself.
The Angle contacts and the Nodes squaring each other are also significant. Your Asc on his IC - Your persona - your personal vantage point - connects with his soul and roots.
And the secret to integrating the Nodes is always in the signs square the Nodes so there is the possibility of mutual support and evolution with Nodes square Nodes.
With Plutonian synastries it is also very useful to use the Black Moons. Plutonians are always evolving into the unconscious and the Black Moons are the essence of the personal unconscious - an emotional North Node.
I think this person might be a narcissist. I’m hesitant to say that because I haven’t completely cut off contact and I’m just putting the pieces together but it just adds up that way to me. It’s not only the traits I see in him but my personal pattern of attracting this type of person. All the work I’ve done to heal yet there’s still a vulnerability in my field apparently.
@libra-noir I'm sorry. But I hope you aren't too hard on yourself. It's hard not to attract a narcissistic person when it's damned near become the social norm!
@elsa Thank you. I’m trying not to be. There’s a psychiatrist who has a lot of content on youtube about narcissism and she says that it’s the epidemic of our time.
How I recognized it was that he started to remind me of my ex who I KNOW is a narcissist. Funnily enough they both have Sun conjunct Pluto and their Mars’ both fall in my eighth house. I guess that makes me a good supply?
I don’t want to be too terse and in the interest of brazen courage I’ll respond my little answer.
firstly, I see a cats cradle formation. I don’t know where I got this idea, and I also see someone’s lone Saturn out there.
I only want to read the chart for you but the Saturn opposite Venus and chirons in earth stood out as.. well they stood out to me! I don’t get a good vibe off his Saturn and not because of the sign it’s in although it could be that.