Advice on anything and everything under the sun!
Dear Elsa I am looking for love, again. I’ve had great relationships in the past, but most of them have been long distance with the exception of one which led to her moving to where I was. We kept that going for five years in a very freeform (yet loyal) way, before deciding we made […]
Dear Elsa, In April, I began a relationship with a man. He was actually my first crush in grade school, and I even had a baby doll named after him. But since then, we had not been factors in each other’s lives at all. I got married to a man in the Army and our
Dear Elsa, I am 32 years old, single, and I haven’t had a relationship with a woman in about 4 years. I have lots of friends, my family is alive and well (thank G-d) but I just can’t seem to meet a woman. I am very shy with the opposite sex and people in general
Dear Elsa, I am 5 months pregnant. As soon as I found out I was pregnant, it was like my entire thought pattern was altered. My husband is a tremendously selfish person, and in the back of my mind I always knew that but I suppose now that I am older I CAN REALLY SEE
Hello Elsa, This year my father died, and after this I changed my view of life. I quit my job that made me unhappy. I started to tell people what I REALLY THINK. I started to tell people that I love them. I am afraid this view will change and I will start acting as
Dear Elsa, My husband cheated on me with his niece. I was very hurt and sought counseling. I have passed through several stages of denial, acceptance, grieving and finally moved on. Because of the children we are still communicating, but his mistress forbids him to see his children and my children are too young to
Dear Elsa, I am in love very deeply with my best friend. We have an intense connection; he reads my very thoughts in detail. He is unlike no one else I have ever known; his every movement fascinates me. My feelings have not waned for him in the slightest since I’ve known him, despite him
Hi, Elsa. About six weeks ago, I was diagnosed with herpes simplex 1. My story’s almost embarrassing. My partner and I consider ourselves intelligent, informed people in our 40’s. I’m even in the medical field. We didn’t know his oral herpes could be transmitted during oral sex he performed on me… but it was. Now
