“five minutes can be waaaaaay too long, often enough, to wait for help.”
Effects of moon in aspect to Mars. Conjunction, square, opposition, trine.
Now when you’re talking about Cancer men, you have to look at the Moon in the chart to see what you’re dealing with. And in Scott’s case, his Moon is in Aquarius, so he is going to want to shock his family. But beyond that, Pluto and Mars are involved so it’s no big surprise