Hi Elsa,
Back in October, I met a Virgo man. We got along wonderfully and I could tell we really liked each other; we talked everyday. As the time passed he called less frequently and backed away and when I questioned him, he said it was because he liked me.
When I like a person I want to talk to them more not less, and I got upset and told him that. After that, things were not the same. Two months ago I told him I thought I was falling in love with him and have not heard from him since. I have tried calling him and he has completely ignored everything.
I am trying to find out what happened and get closure. Did I scare him off? Or is he thinking about it and will he come back? He never officially broke off the relationship.
Completely Confused
United States
Dear Confused,
I am sorry this man’s mixed signals set you on a path to confusion, but at this point his signals are abundantly clear. He is not interested. And further, you are not going to get “closure” because he is not going to give it to you. The reason being that he’s not capable of giving it to you.
He is also not capable of telling you that he doesn’t like you, that he likes someone else better, that he changed his mind or whatever else his reason for pulling away may be. And if you have even a modicum of class (he doesn’t), then you will respect his shortcomings and relent with contacting him and/or professing your love. And beyond that you can learn from this. Because these are facts:
When it comes to relating to others, people have varying levels of skill. And there is nothing you can do about their mastery on this front. But there is plenty you can do about yourself and your post suggests you can use some help on this front and that I have.
Some years ago I had a friend who had an MO that was similar to yours. That is, when a man pulled away from her, she chased him even harder. And she never caught anyone doing this and eventually it caused her enough pain she went to therapy. And the therapist, realizing she had no idea how to read a situation like this or where to put the lines, offered this advice:
She told her when a man (or a woman or whoever) pulled away from her, she should immediately pull twice as far back as they had. She explained if the person was interested, this would bring them back very directly. And if they did not come back she’d already have some distance, never mind she would be spared the heartache and humiliation a person goes through when they finally realize they are chasing someone who is trying to get away.
This worked for my friend. It changed her life and I think it will help you too.
Good luck.
Absolutely excellent advice. And, I can vouch for that method and it’s ability to work. Been there.
Great advice Elsa and I’m with JJJ. But then again I understand Virgo men and have a ton of them in my life. If the man wanted her, trust me, he would have done anything in his power to keep her. When Virgo wants, Virgo goes and gets!
She’s probably better off.
Amazing advice! Hard to do in practice though, especially when one is young. Still, I wish I had known that in my younger days. Still good to know now though.
It’s very similar to ‘He’s just not that into you’ which was a revelation to me by the way. If a man wants to pursue a woman, nothing will stop him or get in his way.
Totally agree with both your posts @barb. This indeed is an excellent post…. for ALL of us. Thanks, Elsa.
Excellent Advice Elsa!
I’m going to go ahead and guess that this Pisces woman has an Aries Venus. Boy, do I recognize this impulse. I have to constantly guard against doing it myself… it’s such a painful trap too.
Just a thought – I always attract Virgo men – I am a Sag with a lot of Scorpio and have not been taking my own advice but gladly have started the phoenix rising recently after a looong time needing to. I love Virgos and rarely have a problem with them. This seems mainly due to the fact that I looove to learn and to teach and they are similar. I think sometimes when a Virgo man feels he ‘has’ you, he sees you as an extension of himself and just like he analyses himself he analyses you to try to get the best out of you as you are now a part of him…I find, as a Sag, that the best way to combat a Virgo tryng to perfect me is to put the spotlight back onto him and how he can perfect himself 😉
My phoenix is partly due to Elsa, although she wouldn’t have expected it as I reacted rather adversely to a couple of her comments ;0
WORST guy I ever was involved with was another Virgo. He did a disappearing act that would put a Scorpio to shame!!! Came back 16 years later all apologies, and we saw each other again. Found out that he had a girlfriend, and another old girlfriend on the side. He had all three of us in rotation. Old GF, me, and current GF. Then he switched the other 2 and still tried to keep me on the side. I did not find out what was really going on until one of them emailed me!!! Thank God she did. That was about 3 weeks ago. I got rid of all our mutual friends on FB, and made my profile completely private, to the point that if you are not my friend, you can’t email me. And you can’t friend me unless you know one of my friends.
I have to say that this topic brought out a lot of shocking things about Virgo. I WILL say that for ME, as a female Virgo, if I lose respect for you, the relationship is DONE. Or if I see you as a weakling, needy person, I am done. People need to come together as equals and join forces in a healthy way. My best matches ever, have been Scorpio and Taurus.
It may be easy for me to say as an older woman, and a Mars in Cancer Rx; but ladies – NEVER ever chase a man. Just don’t do it!
Even if he responds, and most won’t, he will never again respect you. And as many of the depressing stories above demonstrate, that lack of respect ensures he will probably use you not just for sex but for money, and for regular power trips or ego boosts.
Whether or not the man is Virgo has little to do with it, though I agree Virgo men can be terrific flirts and will back off if you show interest.
I used to work for several years for a Virgo guy – happily married (for the second time) and quite content to play second fiddle to his high powered banker wife, spend a lot of time being house-husband etc. They are not all monsters 😉
“NEVER ever chase a man. Just don’t do it!”
Yup. Thank you. And it’s not a gender thing… I’m a woman, and I don’t like being chased either. I like my space.
The real thing unfolds naturally.
Virgos have secret lives – just be on the lookout for ones that don’t match yours, is all.
There is a lot of dating advice for women out there, but just know that you will be playing games to lure and control men who respond to this for the rest of the time. If you enjoy this, by all means, but just know what you are getting into, because the minute you stop, it’s gone.
This is due personal experience from following advice from women who know the ropes – so I did for awhile, and everything worked like a charm.
But then I realized that instead of living with a man I wanted as a partner, I felt as though I was training a dog or pulling puppet strings. It looked good, but I felt as though I were manipulating him. I approach this now by just allowing things to develop by being as open as I can and letting things unfold.
Try it and see how you like it for yourself.
I can attest that all of your descriptions apply perfectly to a man a knew with a Virgo Moon (actually, he had Virgo Moon conjunct Pluto and Uranus – scary combo).
Same basic thing happened, made me feel loved and made references to “forever” then ran away without a word or a goodbye – never heard from him again. He had a history of bad relationships -very short ones, love em and leave em – with no explanation. Very COLD.
Yikes! This stuff sounds scary as ^&^$#$. I’m a Capricorn with Venus in Scorpio trine Saturn and I probably couldn’t chase someone even if I wanted to just from sheer determined indignation. Could it maybe be Virgos of a certain generation causing all this ruckus and emotional chaos?….Like the ones with a Neptune in Sagittarius square to the Virgo Sun? I’ve witnessed extreme gaslighting from this group of people when in relationships, men and women. Just curious.
Other than that, the text book description of Virgo Suns doesn’t even begin to explain some of these guys horrid behavior. wow…Good thing I generally have zero chemistry with them. smh
Uhhhh grrrr…!!! Virgo men are my biggest nightmare. They will make you believe that they love you and want to settle down with you but the moment you gave in to them they will just shut you out from their life forever. And leave you in to dust. If they don’t want to be with somebody then why do they mislead people and play with their emotions?? that is so unfair,humiliating and hurting. Why can’t they see that what they are doing today will backfire them in future because KARMA is like BOOMERANG.And KARMA spares nobody and will come back to them in future with full “INTEREST”. They can really hurt people without even regreting for what they have done. Their search for perfection(*which they surely can’t attain) leads them to UNHAPPINESS. They are never happy and are always negative with what they have and will always search for the so called “PERFECT WOMAN” ,which really does not exist.This games of Virgo men ultimately prevents them to see the BIG PICTURE because they act so irrational and delusional.They are so busy in playing games that they even push away their POTENTIAL MATES in search of the perfect ones.
Its really very sad but true. In the way of their search for perfection they crush many hearts who really loved these virgo men unconditionally.
I am very happy that my virgo ex is no more a part of my life.No more virgo for me. I will prefer to die alone without a mate than to date a Virgo again.
lol where is my comment ??? :O
This thread keeps catching my eye over n over…
I’m (still) digging deep for strength to get some balance else I’ve got to give it up for sakes of my sanity. The game is becoming boring. I either tell him and likely he’ll run for the hills or just cut it off, no explanation. I just can’t concentrate on anything else at the moment.
Virgo men are the worst! Do not get pulled in by their head games! This is exactly what they want .. a twisted way to control you. They are compulsive liars, closet perverts, sadistic, gaslighters and often violent and seem to have an underlying loathing of women. Pulling you in only to throw you out is A TYPICAL VIRGO MALE TRAIT. They are charming till they get you where they want you and then look out! The true colors emerge. As far as the original answer given here which I think goes something like “just play it cool” UH WHY??? Why lower yourself and become like this idiot Virgo to accommodate his mental issues? LOVE IS NOT ABOUT STRATEGY! Find someone who is MAN ENOUGH to love openly without resorting to this PULLING AWAY BS. Do not throw away your self respect by engaging in the game of mental masturbation the Virgo male inevitably thrusts upon you. Leave them to wallow in their girly head games and find a real man. Do you really want to go through a relationship having to gauge when to pull back and when to let your guard down? What kind of nonesense is that? Leave him!
Love is not a HEAD GAME neither a STRATEGY . But for Virgo men its all like that. They are womanish and are very B!thcy. They are spineless and cowards so they love to throw their insecurities upon their loved ones. Having low self esteem is the main reason behind their controlling nature. They are scared to see their better half to be independent. That is why they love to strip away the independence of their mates bit by bit. They are unable to love somebody genuinely because they are so self absorbed and they love to keep their mates as one of their possessions. They love to obsess and obsess and that’s what makes them Emotionally handicap.
That’s all they can do and nothing else.
In defense of Virgos (I have mercury, venus and mars all in Virgo), it’s a matter of one facing up to his own faults before he can find personal happiness. Once he is able to achieve this he will realize that he can find happiness by settling with someone who’s fine just they way they are. It’s a learning process of hitting walls constantly until you realize that your ideals are just unobtainable (and if they are, they ALWAYS come with some disappointing strings attached).
Sometimes it takes coming out of the shy Virgo shell and breaking “this is normal for me” boundaries to do it. (sounds Cancer-like, doesn’t it?)
I am a person of extremes and sometimes I’ll have a very black/white view of things (thank you 8th house Merc/Mars), so I’m not one for BS either. I want you to lay it to me straight, no games, no horseplay, no fickle decisions, no nothing. I’ll feel just as bitter and sour if you play games with me when all I want is a straight answer of “yes” or “no”.
My ex have had 5 placements in virgo …!!! Scary ? Yeah I know its a bit scary thing to deal with a person with so many placements in virgo. He was the coldest and meanest person I’ve ever seen in my entire life. Being a cancer(with rising in virgo,scorpio moon) I need emotional closure and deep emotional commitment but he was unable to provide me that. Its was so hard to talk to him even normally. There was no casual conversation between us.He was a smooth talker though and I’ve fallen deeply for him for his smooth talking I guess and I still love him , he knew how to connect but was so lame to maintain that connection. He was extremely self centered and self absorbed person only talked to me when he felt like, never ever cared about my feelings or what I really wanted and liked. Everything was on his terms and conditions. He was shy in public but not behind the close doors.Our relationship lasted only for six months. I tried my best to get him back but he dint even bothered to take me back. I think he is still obsessed with his ex. He just ran away from this relationship but made me tons of promises in the beginning which were never fulfilled. I wish some day he realizes what he has done to me.
The more you love a Virgo man The more he gives you pain.
The more you try to be close to him and try to understand him the more he will run away from you. They are very much capable of ruining a woman’s life,destroying her emotional state completely and tearing her soul apart.
They usually run behind those women who treats these virgo men like shits and disrespects them.Good and decent women are not meant for these virgo guys.They love whores,sluts and haughty women the most. If a good woman ever comes in their way then they will use her, treat her badly and will give her extreme mental torture.
Virgo men are not capable of loving someone. They only love sex. They are even scared to make proper eye contact with their mates.Sad sad sad!!!!!!!!!
They aren’t compatible with anybody.
And Yes They want what they can’t have.
They are only good at serving people and are helpful as friends.
Virgo women are totally different from their male counterparts but Virgo men are uuuhhhh..just pain.
They are simply strange and weird. If you love a virgo man then he will run away from you or keep you hanging around for years and years. They will keep you aside and go out looking for other opportunities(their perfect women obviously). And please don’t believe a single word said by a virgo man because its all lie. They say what you love to hear. They know how to please people ,they are very crafty. Mercury is the ruler of virgo so you can see why these men do not have any genuine emotions or feelings .They are all about sex and obsession. Yes they love to obsess over their past and are delusional. With a sharp business mind they are always calculating what they can gain from others . That is why they are very successful in their carriers.But are Loners. They can’t appreciate real love, no matter how much you love them or try to be close to them -they will let you down for sure.
Don’t ever wait for a virgo man or you will keep waiting for the rest of your life and become old.
Love a virgo man at your own risk.
In response to teDAREka …. Virgos demand honesty, oh yes!!! The problem? They never give it in return. I have known more than just a few women who’s Virgo boyfriends and husbands gave the same line of patter you do. They go on that everyone needs to be patient with them and guess what? IT ONLY MAKES THEM WORSE! The result? Years go by while these women ARE PATIENT WITH THEM only to realize they were laboring under a misapprehension. Years they can NEVER get back! Enough sugar coating here … The stark reality is Virgo men absolutely thrive on rejection. They chase those who are indifferent to them and abuse those who TRY TO BE PATIENT WITH THEM. It is no coincidence that so many of these Virgos have been emotionally rejected by their mothers and yet they seem to obsess on them. Big surprise!
Yes CLMM you hit it right Virgo man claims their woman to be honest and straight forward to them but in return they give their woman duplicity,lies,fake promises,hatred,deceit and unfaithfulness.
They like it when their woman humiliates them or is just indifferent to them. They love to chase those woman whom they can’t get in real.
Waiting for a Virgo man is like waiting for a dead person to come back to life again. Never do that or you will loose everything – your time, your energy,your emotions,your soul,your love,your happiness and then you will die.
A virgo man is like H.I.V who will slowly lead you to AIDS and death.xxx
ugh, i still frequently think about the virgo man, Michael, I met in early Sep 2007. we met at 7 pm on Sunday and spent the entire evening/night talking until the next day at 7 am. He asked me out that day for following Fri night. I don’t know what happened but he slipped away. I wanted to pursue him, but i refrained bc i didn’t want to push. i miss the man i never knew. don’t even know his last name so i cannot find him. Michael if you read this, your bday is 14Sep1975 and we met in Chapel Hill at borders cafe. i’m at [email protected]
i would just like somebody’s advice
my ex boyfriend is virgo and yes he was distant blowing hot and cold etc though after i while i got tired for waiting for him so i got new number, new email etc. After 4 half years ive logged into my old email and saw some emails from him, only a few. Though, i sent him an email casually asking him how r u where u at now etc he sent me back straight away and he seemed so happy he said he still cares and adores me etc and thinks about me every nights and day and every woman he sees, he actually sees me instead…
Anyway, it’s prob B.S but i replied him casually then he replied back with a much longer email. In the email he asked for my number so we dont have to contact by email. Should i give him my number? And if i don’t what should be my excuse? Thanks.
I don’t really care if we have a relationship together, friendship is fine. Even if he doesnt want me im fine with it im not too bothered even tho i reli like him. So should i give him my number ???
@Taurus/Pisces Woman -No please dont do it again. You will get pulled in again and then again he will show his true colours. Tell him that you are with somebody else and you have moved on.
I gave him my number but it’s not permanent cuz I’ll moving anyway and changing my number. but don’t worry he’d never pull me in again. Even if he did call I really dont care and besides I’m married. I wud never think of betraying my husband he is so good compared to him. Honestly so many virgos are users. After all these years he’s so bein warm to me now all he wants is a b.call that’s all he wants I kno. He’s such a lier saying like oh I care about u and I’ve always adored u and this b.s. he said why didn’t u contact me we were so close. I said I didn’t cuz u didn’t show me u cared. U can’t just show love with words. It needs action and A bit of effort. That is effortless now with my husband who always shows me love affection love and I never had to play mind games or wait days on end to weeks and even months to hear from him. Virgo men are a joke. Wen things aren’t working for them they just come back only to disappear again with another woman then come back months later cuz he screwed that woman up as well. I know his game so don’t worry. Maybe il give him a taste of his own medicine.
Besides I’m sure he wud be so upset if he knew I was married or maybe he wouldn’t care but what do I expect? I can’t wait for a man who wont respond! And women say like oh wait for them it’s worth the wait. Please do itself a favour. Don’t wait!
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@ -Taurus/pisces woman – lol yep Now play his game and give him the taste of his own medicine. He deserves it actually. They think women are puppets..You are right probably he has screwed the other woman and now he wants a booty cal, Virgo guys are really good at pretending and maintaining double-life and double standards throughout their life. Most of the virgo men I know personally are liars, cowards and Drama queens. He thinks its a safe bait to return to an old flame,what he doesnt know is that -the old flame has become clever enough not to fall prey to him again. True who needs a man who cant give least emotional closure,affection and care ?..Who needs mind games,pull/push, hot/cold behaviour in LOVE? Actually they have Harems of women to fullfill their narcissist top ups. Hmm you are so very right about their only talking and taking/showing no action part. They love to talk and talk but when the time comes to be a “MAN” and take some action -they just disappear like spirits. Sigh..who needs garbage in the name of love , No woman in this world can deal with their world of emotional rollercoster ride. Its exhausting. Play him, and this time Play him hard so that next time he cannot even imagine of ruining any woman’s emotional state. They are actually karmicaly cursed.
Its so true its not worth the wait,those who say that— “” wait for them it’s worth the wait”” ARE FOOLS. I will say they are talking bull s.
Yes ‘no simply no’ us right. He honestly and truly ruined me before. I fainted once after not hearin from him for weeks. It’s like they come to u get what they want then leave u. They only think about themselvs and u have to ask ur self that when they come back u need to wonder what they want cuz they only come back if they want something. He’s living the high life and moved at California years ago. He’s like why didn’t u contact me? Tell me we were so close! I’m like why the f shud I contact u. U ditched me like a garbage bag with no call hardy any contact for years. They think they can just come back and expect that that person has forgotten all the drama all the pain and hurt. They prob didn’t even realise cuz they were too self centred. And ok I know men do this thing all the time. If they dont like a girl too much they end up becoming distant etc. no matter what star sign u are etc. but personallly for me I find Virgo men to be the most cruel because they’re not straight up with the women. They will continue to play them manipulate them emotionally and physically thinking they have something together when in fact he’s laughing behind her and taking the piss out of her behind her back saying haha I used her Again she fell for it. They’re soooooo screwed up. They have no respect they think they’re all that but they’re not. They couldn’t maintain a healthy long lasting relationship even if they’re life depended on it. There’s something called loyalty having a bit of dignity and respect for other people. Ok If they don’t like the girl then fine but don’t pllay her for years and years leading women to think no they’re worth it in the end wait for them. That’s bull. In the end they want a woman who won’t give them the time of day. I’ve seen this for myself.
Girls listen up. Love isn’t supposed to be painful crying hurting. That’s not love. If someone loves u they care for u if someone cares for u they’ll call u and ask how ur doing contact u and ask where r u etc. not disappearing for days and weeks. Love is demonstrative. It’s not a puzzle it should never be hard work. Love should be mutual never one sided completely. Love isn’t crying love isn’t pain. Find yor true worth because every woman is worth happiness emotional security. If u are in our situation u must try to move on. U may never forget but did someone who wants the same out of a relationship as u do. Not a boody call. There are real men out there who do actually want seriousness. Don’t put ur hopes and dreams in these men cuz their hopes and dreams are not for serious committed relationship as u want. Their soul mates are whores prostitutes who don’t give a damn. Go out the to the world! Socialise! Meet people! Talk as friends! Be open and don’t be sad wasting ur life on these losers. Hopefully u will find mr right as I have done 🙂 now I’m so happy.
@Taurus/pisces woman -Oh so sorry to hear that you have to go through all the bull sh!ts of your ex virgo..you are so very right that men treats women like sh!ts and any man can do that.True. But these virgo men are some exceptional creatures. They will make you fall for them and when you fall for them hard they will just drop you. They will give you an impression that you are the one and make you wait for many years until you realise that its too late and you are too old for mind games. Virgo men are very very metrialistic and love their material possessions more than their spouse/lover/mates. They are money hungry and are attracted to rich posh life.They are never happy nor satisfied with what they have. They act like bipolar & delusional spoiled brats. They are actually self-centered NARCISSISTS. They are in love with themselves. Hah..!!you are right about their acting like “nothing has happened ” part and they return to you expecting that you will take them back..lol b.s. They are never Loyal and are so lame to keep their promises . They are emotionally retarded actually and are unable to keep or maintain a relationship. They are just fake. I’ve seen that they are very attracted to s.l.u.t.s and w.h.o.r.e.s and they treat these girls like angels in return these girls treat these virgos as sh!t. Moral of the story is–Treat your virgo as sh!t in return he will treat you like an angel.
Yes if you have to cry and only cry in love then probably its not love its just pain. Love is something mutual..Not only giving and getting nothing in return. These virgo guys are commitment phobic and have loads of trust issues b”coz they judge people by their own filthy character .and that is the reason they treat good/kind women like sh!ts and run behind who.res and slu.ts. The more you love a virgo man the more he will give you pain and drama.Stop loving thaem and treat them like stray dogs -They will start respecting you.
Virgo men are like misery hole ,they live for and on misery and thrive on the misery of others. Actually they are like parasites..They repeat the same patter with different women -just to give pain. Its better to leave them alone forever.
Its so true my Aries-Taurus cusp man treats me like a queen. Loves me more than anything else. Very attentive and sensual. ;).. I love him so much .
1 thing I”ve noticed in virgo men that Aug born virgo males are some what better but the september borns are DANGEROUS,COWARDS,SPINELESS,ESCAPIESTS,TWO-FACED jerks. Stay away from them or you will suffer for ever.
I fell madly in love with a Virgo guy in a matter of 2-3 weeks. We would talk regularly and would text a lot for 2 weeks and then suddenly all of that stopped.. whenever we met, which was on 3 occasions with other friends, never alone… I felt the chemistry between us so much… then one day he out of the blue texts me that there can be only friendship between him and me …. this also happened after the phone calls and texting reduced suddenly … its amazing how all this changed.. he also told me tht he was trying to woo someone else and hence we could only be good friends and that he has never thought of me as anything but a friend… I don’t know what hit me but it has taken me several weeks to come back to normalcy; am slowly getting there.. but this is what I did… I called him over for dinner at my place with some other friends.. and told him that I cannot take his offer of been just friends and that will think about it … I told him that we need to stop communicating completely and that I will reach out to him if I think I could just be a friend… I know I will never get back to him but I sometimes wonder whether he would ever contact me or miss me… perhaps not!! Where is come from is if you love someone, set them free; if they come back they are yours but they do not; they were never meant to be yours… So my advice to all those beautiful ladies… just get your act together, your life together; do not spoil your life for just a guy; it is not worth it as it is true if he really loves you and cares for you, he will never let you go and will come back…. God Bless and have a good life!
@ZINY, Of course he’ll come back to you again. He will also push you away again and again. This is the Virgo man pattern of emotional abuse. His telling you that he wants to be friends only means that he needs you as backup in case it doesn’t work out with his current lady friend. Virgo guys always keep women on the back burner “just in case” Let me ask you this: If he really never had any intention of being more than friends with you then why did the communication from him suddenly slow down so drastically when he started to pursue another woman? If he thought of you as a friend it should have no effect on your communication if he is courting (baiting) his next victim? Seems to me that he strung you along emotionally and then decided to put you on the shelf when he saw something that might suit him better. The biggest mistake women make with virgo guys is to play the martyr and be patient with them. It really brings out their sadistic nature. Watch and see!
@Ziny
I agree with CLMM ..Your virgo will repeat this virgo pattern again and again. Don’t fool yourself. He is using you just as PLAN-B. They derive certain pleasure by giving pain and misery to women. Move on and don’t look back. Find some one else who will treat you right. Virgo men treat women like crap. Actually they hate women and thats the reason they treat women with such strange , weird behaviour.
Thanks Elsa for creating this blog. I was once involved with a weird virgo man who was too confused to take any decision. I can see from where these women are coming from. Astrology sites claim virgo men as stable and trustworthy. But in reality they are pathological liars,controlling,critical men crawling on this Earth.
Your blog is so popular . 🙂
Girls/Ladies I request you all to go to other virgo sites and see how virgo guys are on rampage against article authors who writes blogs about virgo men. Its really hillarious. 😀
yes. im a cancer woman and this virgo man pursued me and made me feel desired then once he got me he blatantly never talks to me [the aforementioned happened to me with another virgo man too]
unless he’s doing something he knows i hates. like he’ll tell me to text him when he knows i like personal conversations or he will text me and tell me to call him when he knows i believe men should call me.
he only wants to see me when he wants money this of which he will not get from me-im a lady. he has never taken me out and the day i ignored his calls and texts [because he was asking for money], he said he was trying to reach me so he could take me to lunch.
he has been out of town a few times yet he never has time for me unless he is asking for money that im not going to give him. i bet he’ll eventually stop communicating all together because i’m tired of him only communicating for money and im not dancing around the issue and laughing it off anymore.
strangely, these virgo man experiences i’ve had [2] reminds me of how a scorpio would act. reel me in and then sting me over and over again.
im not dealing with these virgo men anymore and if one tries again, i’ll let them know how i see they all do me.
it’s hard to accept that this virgo man isnt the chivalric man that he appears to be even when he’s being subliminally disrespectful….smh. his disrespect is so subtle that i easily forget it and allow him to do it again.
i’ve already toughened my skin against scorpios cause we aaaall know what to expect no matter what gender or background they are.
and i have already hardened my shell with most signs and how they can be negative towards me, but this virgo man really boggles my mind. i dont know when my mind will completely accept that he is not mr. chivalry…smh
it’s even harder to accept because virgo man-cancer woman
is greeeeat
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OMG @CLMM that’s what he’s doing to me!!!
and sometimes sickeningly i think i like it because his sex is so good. im dicmatized.
he makes me feel glad that he gives me any attention at all–and that is so not my style because i am unbeliveavbly naturally gorgeous and sexy and i KNOW that this is no way to get him to have any real interest in me other than what you said
–his goal seems to be to feed off of my submissive energy to encourage him to continue being an a-hole, and to keep me on reserve so he can see which lady is going to turn out being the best one.
He he he It seems that all the other zodiac signs are on RAMPAGE against virgo men .lol
Is there any difference between August born virgo and sept born virgo male?? I’m seeing this Aug born virgo man 27th Aug he has moon in pisces and rising in gemini but I ‘m not sure whether he is like all the other scary virgos. He seems to be a nice guy. He respects elders. I was once involved with a scary sept born ((with his moon in virgo, mercury in virgo,rising scorpio.)) controllinng virgo man who was simply crazzy,selfish,negative,depressed,narrow-minded,rude and emotionally insensitive to others. Can any one give any insight about august born virgo males ?? btw I am a cancer if it helps.