About outer planets aspects Ascendant.

I've met a few people born within a couple of months of each other who have Pluto (Libra) trine my Ascendant (Aquarius). The same people have Neptune (Sagittarius) sextile my Ascendant. Their Jupiter is conjunct my moon and ascendant.

These people all had profound effects on me. I think I had on them too. Maybe this has nothing to do with these aspects. I'm not sure.

MariaR said
Thanks PurpleStarGirl. Your example helps. I imagine a conjunction to the Ascendant would be felt much more intensely than a trine or sextile. The Venus sextile Ascendant does sound nice and comforting though.

  

It doesn't help that my Sun and Uranus also tightly conjunct his Venus, his Pluto trines my Moon and Venus and sextile my Mars, our Mars conjunct each other, my Mars conjunct his North Node, and his Mars sextiles my Moon and Venus.

Way more than ASC synastry at play there. Lol.

My husbands moon, venus and mercury are tightly conjunct my ascendant. I think he's been very drawn to me since day 1. My Mars is also loosely conjunct his ascendant. But I'd say he feels it more.

I think both feel it, but it's different.

The Ascendant person likely feels it to be all encompassing, an expression that vibrates from the core, soul.

The planet person feels an activation of the planet e.g. if it's Venus, the planet feels loved in the presence of those core vibrations coming from the Ascendant person. But it may not be far reaching beyond "I feel good right now". However if the planet is angular in their own chart, then just like the Ascendant person those feelings may also be soul reaching.

I hope this makes sense, because it does in my head. lol

Great explanation, Osiris Wife! Would you consider the logic to be same for other sensitive points like descendent, vertex, anti-vertex, north node, south node etc? 

Yes, I think so.