Turtle, I'm so sorry. I know exactly what you mean.  Thanks and thank you too, JoFrance, for sharing info on this.

I have an older friend with a lot of Capriorn. He is super smart - reads books like 'The square root of negative zero' and lives alone in a house in the woods he built himself in the 60s. When Pluto opposed itself and started moving over all his cap, he drove his ancient truck into a tree (passed out from low blood pressure) and broke his jaw and dislocated his hip. he has been rehabbing like a true Capricorn. He went back to the woods maybe a little too early and after a few months back to normal he fell and broke his hip.  He's fought his way all the way back to where he is finally ready to go back to live alone in the woods again... But his sun is at 20 Capricorn so...

he was born in 1925 but maybe still relevant. So tough.

My Mom and Dad were both born in 1930, and I took a trip to visit them just yesterday.  They are 3 hours away and still live in the family home with two of my brothers in the same city. My other two brothers and I have lived away for over 30 years--so there are five of us kids with our own families. When Saturn was in Scorpio a few years ago there was some conflict amongst us all regarding whether they should move to a condo or stay where they were at with modifications to their home and lifestyle. Things have not been the same between us all since that time--because of differing views and approaches to aging, caring, responsibility, and reciprocity.  I will say this, the three of us older children have Pluto and Scorpio strong in our charts.  We also have Aquarius and the eleventh house dominant.  

My Mom had a fall a few months ago and fractured a vertebrae. She has been recovering quite well, but is definitely showing her age and frailty. She just got a walker with wheels that she is able to amble with outside the home when she is more fully recovered.  She will be 87 years old tomorrow, and considering her age, is doing very well.  Get this: she is Taurus Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Chiron, North Node.  My Dad is also a Taurus.  They both have Pluto in Cancer at 17-18 degrees with Saturn in Capricorn in opposition (closer orb with my Dad).  They both have Uranus and Mars in Aries; my Dad's is conjunct.

I started having my own family when Saturn moved into Capricorn in 1989, so my oldest has the stellium in Capricorn and the other two have some Capricorn, but not in Saturn or personal planets. 

I wish I knew the birth times of my parents, but I don't.  

I just heard from my fourth person with Pluto opposing their natal Pluto... this is in the last two months. All four of them are vitally alive.

My mom is Pisces sun born in 1938 with Pluto 28can13 so, yes, its her opposition and Saturn is now on her sun and Uranus square her Asc.  She’s doing very well.  We’ve always said she’ll just be gone one day or if she gets ill just fade quickly so as not to bother anyone….
She’s only been in hospital 3 times, giving birth twice and had her knee replaced at 80.  

Mom has Aquarius Jupiter near her Dsc ruling her Sagittarius Moon.