Hey everyone I’m concerned about my solar return chart also my kids chart and literally my whole family .. my fiancé and parents plus my brother we all have very similar solar return charts with the 12th and 8th house I’m so scared bc in 2012 my grandparents and aunt was murdered by my uncle and the placements are also similar I just feel really sick to my stomach if someone could please take a look and let me know your input that would be great because mine isn’t great at all .. this is mine my brother (Jd) my fiancé (curtis) my kids Alayna Destin and Liam and my mom and dad are James and Melinda I’m just worried sick over this
I'm sorry you're afraid. It's very unlikely your family would suffer this level of tragedy more than once. 8th and 12th are sensitive. You want to take care not to become obsessed (8th) and self-undoing (12th).
I'm sorry to place this responsibility on you but the anecdote for problems in these house is EARTHY. In real life, your odds of suffered something of this ilk twice are virtually zero.
I know that you hear of things in the news and stuff but a lot of that stuff is made up.
It could be that you uncover these fears and various subconscious complexes... you resolve them and they disappear.
The houses are about secrets and communing with divine. I really think you're going to be okay. I hate that you're so frightened. 🙁
@elsa I know I’m just so scared of how they are all lining up in my immediate family and the worst part is there’s nothing I can do about it if I wanted too besides worry about everyone .. my poor kids charts look scary too and that really worry’s me I wish I never looked
@mirandag the worry doesn't help. Since you do have regret, I wonder if you can do a rewind in your head and psyche. Go back to where you were before you got polluted.
As for your kids - that's the worst. However, kids do come up against things in life that are very hard for them but nowhere near, death.
For example, my son had a NO FRIEND period. He was so, so sad. My hands were tied as to what I could do to help him. He had horrible transits and he had to endure them. There is nothing you can do as a parent to stop this...
So your kids may have things like this occur this year, which are really, really hard. But not death and murder.
If you can do the back-up thing... like restoring Windows to an earlier time... and then just commit to being there for your family, come what may.
@elsa I will try that .. I just realized my daughter has been going through it already because her bday is December 30th so it already started I think? Or would that be next year I do know my sons started both of their birthdays just passed may and June I just hope things end up being okay I just worry so much because what I have is all I have left and it hurts so bad I wish I wouldn’t have even looked at the charts at all