My daughter was born with Chiron in the 4th, nearly exactly conjunct the IC. She is 1 now, and this is something that has tormented me since the say she was born. I have cried many times. I had an unbelievably traumatic upbringing; something I would never allow my daughter to experience. I myself, have Chiron in the 1st conjunct my AC. I embody that wound, and have dedicated my entire existence to healing, and growth. I do have mental health issues, and I am not perfect. But I am a mushy gushy, loving Taurus Moon. I would never deprive my daughter of love, understanding, and patience. I would never be the negative interpretation of a "Chironic mother." Do any of you know how Chiron on the IC could potentially be positive? Is my daughter doomed to hate me, or is there a bright side to this? Thank you so much.
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I dont know the answer to that ,I am glad to see you back. You and your daughter are so beautiful. Try not to worry about. Give your daughter all your love and it will pay off.
This is me and my daughter she is 41. We are so close . I am so blessed to have her in my life.
It could manifests in many different ways.
The 4th house house isn't just the mother, it can represent her emotions, her youth (under age 21???), her home country, her home/house, her breasts, or a family member that isn't you.
It could also manifest as food and/or weight issues, and has nothing to do with you!
@anonymoushermit Thank you so much. Funny enough, her father is a bigger guy, and he has Chiron in the 4th as well! And his gramma has it, and she is bigger also! I just want us to be close. <3 She also has Jupiter in Sag in the first, conjunct the AC, so she is t h i c k. HA!
It could also manifest as femininity (4th house) issues, like perhaps she'll grow up to be a tom boy and other girls won't get her? Or not. I don't like to predict things too much. I just spit out ideas.
@anonymoushermit I have thought about that too! Especially because she has a huge Leo stellium! It just scares the shit outta me. I appreciate you trying to help me.
I have Chiron in 4th house conjunct IC. I have a close relationship with my mother and always had so don't worry about that.
I don't think my childhood was more difficult than anyone elses. My Chiron is in the sign of Gemini and there wasn't very healthy communication in the home as a child. But I learned from this and have good communication in my relationships as an adult.
I've moved a lot as an adult and searched for a stable home. Chiron in 4th? I didn't find one just yet. But I've had a lot of experiences living in different situations and I'm learning to be at home wherever I am.
Please don't worry about this aspect.