I wasted 7 years of my life on one who was a serial cheater and pathological liar about it, enabled and encouraged by his mother to do whatever he wanted instead of telling the truth.
We had a sun/moon conjunction which kinda explains things but I would never date one again. I'm way too susceptible to the 'poor me' vibe.
Uncle Pluto crossing my DSC put an end to him thank God, but I sadly nearly wasted almost decade of my life. Sorry I can't be more positive. In fact he's the only one of my ex's if I saw on the street I'd walk up and fish slap.
I don’t think I’ve ever even been approached by a Pisces man. I think I scare them lol. The ones I know seem like mostly lost souls.
I do have a Pisces man friend who tries to hook up with all the women but doesn’t get very far. He got used bad by this one piece of work the last few years and was in a codependent marriage for a long time. He’s overall a good friend but kinda flaky. That’s a quality in a man that I could never tolerate in a relationship. That’s crazymaking to my temperament.
So interesting…I was thinking and I don’t think I’ve ever dated one? I had a major crush on one and while I wouldn’t say we are close friends, I guess he is an acquaintance, born right on the cusp Aqua/Pisces and idk his time of birth.
My great uncle was a Pisces. He was such a gentle man. He was my maternal grandmother’s brother. I remember him best when I was about 4-10. He was beautiful. The story I remember best about him (from my mother, a wonderful treasure of family anecdotes) was that he served in Italy in WWII. Somehow he met his wife (my great aunt), and I think she was American but her parents were born in Italy. I don’t remember the connection. But he was just drop dead in love with her the minute he met her. He thought she was the most beautiful woman on earth (she was beautiful). Totally in love in a classic Pisces fashion. Happily ever after, too.
My nephew is a Pisces. I’ve gotten to spend more time with him as he has gotten older. He’s also low key, that thing you pick up about Pisces but I can’t articulate…they swim among us but he’s a good kid. It’s fun to watch him and his older Capricorn brother play and joke off each other, exactly the way my brother, sister, and I do.
No dating info, but that’s about all I can add.
It’s so interesting because I can see Pisces here and there in my family: my sister, our favorite aunt, great uncle, my nephew. My husband has none in his family. Really interesting.
I wanted to share my experiences with Pisces.
When I lived in Los Angeles, I met a Pisces guy and we hung out once and then he swam away. Don't know why.
Right before I moved back to my hometown, I met another Pisces and he was such a dreamboat. We only shared a few intimate moments, but we both were very into each other. When I moved, we lost contact which was very unfortunate because he was literally a dream. Romantic. Caring. Thoughtful. Sensitive. He wrote poetry. He was tall with a slim muscular build. To me, he was a 10/10 ha. But back to the oceans we both went.
There was one Pisces that I met that was a bit free wheeling. I couldn't ever tell if he was lying or if he even had a job, but he was a cool guy. Eccentric. I stopped talking to him because he was a bit too unhinged for me. He partied and drank a lot and did drugs and I didn't really want to be a part of that. His house was kind of cool though. He had all of these different weapons like guns and a mace and club, swords. Cool, but it also had me on my toes just in case he ever tried anything.
Recently, I dated a Pisces and I really liked him but he tossed me to the side. He has an Aries Venus and a Gemini rising with a Gemini Moon (I think? I forgot). We went on a couple of dates and we were really hitting it off. He told me from the start that he would be straightforward with me and everything, but it wasn't really the case. I would let him vent to me about his problems and his family and I listened and was there as much as I could be and in ways, I liked that he could confide in me. I'm a Cancer. I need emotional attachment. He even told me his last ex was a bit abusive to him. But when it was my turn to open up and share my feelings, all I got was "sorry buddy." and that hurt because I would sit there on the phone with him multiple times while he damn near cried about his father being sick, but when it was time to talk about my sick mom that one time, he disregarded it like it was nothing. On my 30th birthday, I wanted to open up and be honest about how I felt and I told him I kind of felt like a failure and was nervous about my 30s and he said that if I was a failure, then he was. After that, he stopped really talking to me. So I confronted him one day and he said, "I don't think I'm ready for a relationship." But he still wanted to have sex.. My conclusion is he was emotionally unavailable.
That's my extent of dating Pisces men.
My BIL is a Pisces and he's such a great father and he is so sweet towards our family. He always BBQ's chicken for my mom when she wants to have family get togethers. He's devoted to the church and willing to give the shirt off of his back to anyone. Their son, my nephew, has OI (brittle bone syndrome) and he's so careful with him and attends to all of his needs. My sister, a fiery Cancer, doesn't have that much patience, but they make it work. They have their problems. My sister is a bit brash and they tend to go back and forth sometimes and even have little passive aggressive face offs, but they've been together for almost 10 years+ and have known each other as kids so I don't know. I think they're locked in for life.
I have a Pisces cousin that was such a player and ladies man growing up. I used to kind of wish I had his ability to be so cool and well liked by everyone. From the girlfriends I remember him having, I won't lie, when we around - and maybe this is because he was putting on a show- he would gaslight one girl in particular and kind of cheat. But maybe he has changed. He's overall a good guy though. Family man and will do anything for his friends/family. I would always feel protected and looked after by him. I was shy and quiet growing up, but he was my best friend and would always include me. He never made me feel left out which I appreciated because I had so many good times and memories with him.
I don't really have any ill feelings towards Pisces men. They usually run away from me because maybe I have too strong of energy or something, I don't know. I don't think I would date another one, but as friends-people, I think they're great.
A year and a half later.... 😊