I have been with one expert gas lighting guy for 3 intense years,i am still healing from it.

When he would say the apple is green and i am myself biting into a red apple,no lie, i believed it,his whole vibe changed so i just agreed on it.

Call it fear of losing him or laziness to change. I was so involved into these games,after our 3 years together i had to spend 3 years to recall the situations and understand what really happened in our time and situations,what hints i've been missing and why i myself was so naive.

That much of a gaslighter he was,my curiosity to figure out what is wrong made me stay,also our love for making music,he was a pianist and i play along with drum maschines. But it was for every person obvious what was wrong,i just couldn't see it.

Gaslighting is his sport. Helping out and staying around when it get's though is mine.

I am sure it has also something to do with us when you get involved,i mean of course,when we allow it...but i am sure there are milder forms of manipulating and i rather be around someone who has good intentions and can fool me,lie or play me out of my bad tendencies(the sweet peaceful pisces neptune style) than rather make myself worser with someone who gaslights brutally and is a mean coward.
I ended it with a nervous breakdown. I was paralyzed. He had to go.

Cause he hit a nerv,and tried to lie about my mother,and that's that,he knew i don't play with my family. I can take it,my mother had nothing to do with it,she passed in 1993,so with that i ended it in the same moment when he tried to switch my memory around about my mother and how she passed away. That was so nasty i came back to my senses...and from there on i kept my peace.

Oh i remember the guy who did this with me,was a scorpio sun,sag rising,cap moon,mercury and venus in scorpio and his mars in aquarius...juno in sag.south node scorpio...saturn scorpio,uranus in sag i think,one of the generation y kids with pluto in scorpio. That is all i remember,i can't really look his chart up cause it brings a lot of crazy memories back.

My Juno is in Aquarius... I attract a lot of juno in sag humans,but they are all just really nice funny people who are always up for fun times,he was the only bad juno in sag i know.

I think if you come across someone new and you see he or she has tendencies to gaslight,don't get involved,or at least not emotionally,that is what i learned. I think the whole world is a gaslighting situation.

Media do it every day and most still open up to it.

Always interesting. Social media / gaslighting. Can't really distinguish anymore.