on solar wings said
I haven't been able to come up with a lot of info of this aspect between charts.

My significant other and I have this my Mars is in Sag & his is in Gemini..We have a lot of other supporting aspects that help out but there is always a feeling of having to defend ourselves from each other.It's the strangest dynamic to me.

Anyone else have experience with this aspect? Please share your thoughts ^^  

In hindsight, you'd think having Mars opposite your partners Mars would make for an effortlessly amazing sex life, but it doesn't! The way you two actually do it may be too different for enjoyment. My boyfriend and I have this in synastry as well. We have a great sex life, but it took some serious understanding on both of our parts.  ❤️

" You enjoy challenging each other and competing against each other. You could easily become rivals or foes, as you tend to oppose one another and to spark one another's fighting instincts. There is an aggressive quality between you which can give your interactions an energetic and lively, but rather combative tone."

This is from the Compatibility Report

Personally, I don't think I would like being opposed to my partner in this way, over time. I mean a person hots you up or triggers you - it's good for awhile. But at some point, I'm going to want a break from your will, constantly fighting mine!

I have mars square mars synastry with my partner. It is rather challenging and exhausting at times. We have other easier aspects (thank goodness) so this helps. We basically want the same thing, but instinctually, would go about getting it, in very different ways ?