Now I completely understand!!!! That really makes sense. Soooo moon square pluto in synastry in the negative sense could manifest as manipluation and emotional abuse, in the positive sense striving for higher emotional understanding and support. I get it!!! Thanks.. In the trine the challenge isn't present. Wow. Ok, I've got it now.

Let me ask you this, and I ask this with all people who ask me for advice or don't know how to proceed; What is your gut instinct trying to tell you? What does your gut tell you about this person?

*If your gut is trying to tell you something, you should listen because that means it knows something you don't.

I have natal Moon opposition Pluto. My ex is born the year before me, so my Moon also opposed his Pluto...it got bad. One of the reasons why I'd never go back. He is unevolved. Part of me does miss the sparring (Neptune is involved). :/

@IronMaiden - you are right. My gut says amputate the folks in question.

@ Namaste - One of the people who I have this Moon square Puto synastry with is born the year before me. I just had to completely remove myself from that situation.

I have this aspect with my husband. I'm the Moon and he's Pluto.

This aspect plays out exactly as described except the jealousy part. We have gotten more used to the dynamics as the years have gone by yet it's spot on, the description.

We have many many nice synastry aspects and 7th house overlays that compensate for this intense one and three other tough and extreme ones( a Moon square Uranus one, Mars square Pluto one and a Mars square Uranus one.)