Roshambo said
Venus in Aries? A conquest thing, like "I can have your man?" 

+1 this placement just going of the ones i know but they shouldn't want the man long enough being aries venuses. still the one i know is decades into it.

sand said

Roshambo said
Venus in Aries? A conquest thing, like "I can have your man?" 

+1 this placement just going of the ones i know but they shouldn't want the man long enough being aries venuses. still the one i know is decades into it.

I was thinking along the same lines of the Venus Aries not wanting the man for long. Once the thrill of the chase is over it usually fizzles. Sport F***ing. Catch and release.

The one you know decades in must have met their match, enjoys having someone keep them on their toes. A worthy opponent kind of thing. 

sand said
mars in libra

no way. my close relatives of this placement are very moral, and upstanding, but they have venus in scorpio as well.

what i've read, going through the dark liliths, it's the Aries lilith....so someone mentioned venus aries, not at all, but the dark side of lilith, Aries is conquer your man theme. Or steal your woman theme.

i don't think it's about morals. that's jupiter. MIL is fine with grey areas. like not being the one the man comes home to. only my observation of course.

I have a friend who a has Venus in the 12th house conjuncts ascendant all in Venus. 

She was always falling for men who treated her like a mistress; married or not.. Or male friends who treated her she is only mistress material. 

So yeah... It's a weird one.

yes to libra mars,

yes to venus-Neptune (the square, conjunction or opposition)

yes to 8th house venus or multiple female planets (moon, venus or Neptune in the 8th

Ive seen these aspects play out on at least one mistress I know (I know quite a few...lol), different combos...all of these mistresses had Neptune-Saturn conjunction in synastry as well as Uranus to Venus or other personal planets with their sugardaddies.