That's an intense 10th house LibraNoir!

Can relate to what you wrote. Feels like most people don't take time to peel the onion.

Also agree with you about self-pity. It doesn't help anyone.

Well it can be a positive that most people dont take the time too look deeper. I think it weeds out the weaker personalities. By weaker, I mean lacking in moral character, loyalty, stuff like that. I prefer to look at it like that, than looking at it like Im being constantly rejected. 

Air signs, they're detached. 

I get told that. I have Capricorn rising and a Scorpio midheaven. Pluto's there too.

I have Sun, Mars and DSC conjunct (but only Mars is in the 7th)... and FINALLY Tr Pluto has left my 7th house this year... during this whole trip of Tr Pluto going over the stuff I mentioned and while just floating around my 7th house I have attracted men that have this need to try to control/dominate/intimate me and while telling other people the reason they are being abusive/bullying me b/c *I* scared them... and all these men are able to EASILY take me physically.  I think what actually scared them is that I saw through their bullcrap and called them out on it (and they feared it could ruin their reputation if I voiced myself) with them thinking I was going to be an easy target.

Also, I have been having my Progressed planets, slowly one by one, going into my 8th house... especially with my Prog Mercury there... not much is getting by me.

Capricorn/Saturn in the 10th house or ascendant or strong Capricorn energy

It gives a natural air of authority and reserve that some people can get intimidated by