Have you?
Or have you had to work really hard for everything you've gotten. I mean head down work to the bone hard. Grinding to receive. Not just from your job, but from people, friends, family...
Have the things you've worked for disappeared? And did you care? Did you get down so low you gave up? Or did you get right back to the grind.
I really wonder what others have been through.
I don't mind hard work. In fact, I am at my best when I am on a grind. But nothing came easy. How about you? Born with a silver spoon? Had to grind? lmk...
What in your astrology shows your resilience?
Omg, I had to grind hard. Many, many setbacks and obstacles on the way. I pushed through and kept going. I have Aries, I just don’t quit. I also have that Saturn on my IC that made it difficult for me to get my footing in the world for sure, but it made me tougher and more resilient. It made me appreciate every little thing. I don’t need much to be happy, but I appreciate my blessings x10. There’s something about working hard for a long time and finally seeing the results of that labor. So satisfying!!!
@sirena-oceana Me too. I have Saturn in the 6th. I've had one obstacle after the next. I even lost everything more than once, but I got back up and kept grinding. I have Mars sq Pluto. People think it's only used for fighting. But that is not true.
I will admit I felt defeated through the process. No one ever gave me anything. I was married to men that made a lot of money, but that came with nothing but hell. I would rather live in an alley.
I don't need much to be happy. People say if you have Taurus you do, but that is not the case with me. It has been a long time since I have even bought a thread of clothing. We cleared out that house and I am glad to be traveling light.
I don’t know what in my chart shows it, since my chart ruler is Venus. But I always had to work hard job wise. And invested a lot in friendships. Hardly got anything in return. Maybe Saturn in Virgo 11th house?
I had to work hard in my love relationships, at home, in foster care.
I just kept going, when my ex left me for another , I worked 2 fulltime jobs, he didn’t pay the mortgage, and I couldn’t get off the mortgage easily. The bank wouldn’t allow It since my ex wasn’t working . And just didn’t want to. So I rented my own apartment which I had to pay for and paid for the mortgage, let’s say I’ve always worked hard to not ever get in debt like my parents always were. I remember how tired I came home at 11Pm or mostly later. And then to get up at 7 AM to get ready. I did that for 6 years until finally my ex his then gf took over my part of the mortgage, well she better had to since she was the home wrecker in the first place.
most people said don’t pay the mortgage and wait for bankruptcy, but I was stubborn I just couldn’t.
yeah nothing came easy. Expect my current boyfriend of 9 years. I feel very fortunate to have him in my life. So there was my luck.
I have received a good number of things easily. But more often than not, I pay in spades in the end. I'd rather grind.
Yes. But then I am weighed down by feeling like I have to pay it back or it won't last. That might be Saturn 6th (tools with a time limit), or the moon 10th (success built on water)?
Like Elsa said above, I'd rather grind. That said, being comfortable damn near kills me.
I'm built for hard work and crisis; normality is the hardest thing EVER.
