Who do you favor? Your mother? Your father? Roughly, an even split?
I would say pretty much an even split, though I think I'm slightly more like my mother.
I favored my father until I was in my 40's, looks and otherwise. At that point it switched; looks and otherwise.
My dad, we both have a Jupiter/Pluto conjunction in the 12th house. I have a hard time understanding, what that means?
Both of my parents were interesting, complicated people, my dad particularly was one of the most interesting people, I have ever known, I say, that with all sincerity.
All I heard all my life; you are just like your mother - you are just like your father. They were divorced so this is what I heard when I was apparently not pleasing to one of them (which was ridiculous because i was a very quiet child and very subservient) (I did exactly as I was told)
My Mother is a Cancer stellium/Taurus stellium.
My father a Pisces sun/Scorpio moon/Cap rising.
You can see both of them in my BC. And me in theirs.
From the neck down I am my mother made again. My face, coloring, my father's spitting image.
I cook and love on and domestic the way my mother did when she was sane. I have her Taurus, so I sing and play piano. My father a professional artist and piano, sax, drummer .... very of the arts. Neither made a good living at any of it. Father highly educated; mom couldn't have cared less about any of that.
Truth be told I carry myself as my grandmothers did because they are the people who raised me. One a Cap the other a Gemini. Good solid women. Both hard workers who took good care of their families. Both made sure I had everything I needed. These are the people who imprinted me from birth to 12-14 years old. I had their direct guidance at all times.
My parents were hopeless romantics who pined for each other all their lives. They never got over one another. They were both delusional a lot of the time and my mother an addict. Complicated. But I loved them. They loved me too but were way too young to have a child... so the grandparents stepped in.
Definitely an even split. I think I inherited my Dad’s mind and my mom’s heart.