strawb said
it's ridiculous the number of times this has happened to me, and i have resisted every time. i wonder if it's a karmic lesson/test for me or something. but, you're right, im realizing this seems to happen a lot to a lot of people.
oh how I feel your pain. You're certainly not alone. For me it also the same thing over and over again. I'm starting to learn to channel the pain it brings though.
My lover's Lilith in Leo in his 11H is conjunct my Venus and Jupiter in my 12H. It's a secret affair. Does this mean I'm his kryptonite or he's mine...? My Lilith is on the Aries / Taurus cusp in my 8H which falls in his 8H too...
notintofeet said
WindowLicker said
I had weird Lilith contacts going on with my the ex. He had his Lilith conjunct his Capricorn Sun, both exactly on my Descendant; and his Jupiter conjunct my Virgo Lilith and Virgo South Node by degree. There was a strong Lilith theme to our relationship; he wanted to tame me (even sexually), to impose his views on me, and this triggered my hidden, primeval Lilith aggressiveness, so we clashed on a regular basis and the last months of our relationship were spend fighting almost daily. But at the same time there was an obsessive fascination on both parts. It was a stormy, intense and short-lived relationship, I fell in Love at first sight and even 5 months after the breakup I still feel that visceral pull and desire.Sounds fascinating WL. Sorry for being blunt but how was the sex? Was there tantric lifechanging obsessive transformative sex involved. This is what the girl is known for.
Nah, don't be sorry. I have Mars in Aries, there's no such thing as "blunt" : D
It was lifechanging for me. He opened the box of Pandora. For the first time in my Life I was actually able to orgasm during sex. This played a huge part in my proficuous sexual desire in his regards - obsessive indeed. But he used to withold sex or to want it on his terms (Cap Lilith much?) so I had to sublimate and withold my sexual energy a lot, which in turn only made it all the more intense. I controlled myself a lot because I Loved him and thought I wouldn't want to make him uncomfortable (Libra, heh) but boy did I want to jump his bones all the time lol.
WindowLicker said
Nah, don't be sorry. I have Mars in Aries, there's no such thing as "blunt" : D
It was lifechanging for me. He opened the box of Pandora. For the first time in my Life I was actually able to orgasm during sex. This played a huge part in my proficuous sexual desire in his regards - obsessive indeed. But he used to withold sex or to want it on his terms (Cap Lilith much?) so I had to sublimate and withold my sexual energy a lot, which in turn only made it all the more intense. I controlled myself a lot because I Loved him and thought I wouldn't want to make him uncomfortable (Libra, heh) but boy did I want to jump his bones all the time lol.
Men who withold sex must be the worse thing ever. Listen you assholes, that's a woman's job. LOL
I can only imagine your frustration, it's hard not getting what you want when you want it. Especially when it comes to sex.
Windowlicker: I think I read somewhere that Jup magnifies everything it touches so if it's on say somebodies mars you end up being extremely sexually attracted to them or irritated by them. Do you think his jupiter on your lillith brought your inner nymfo to life. It's sounds to me like that specific aspect could have been responsible for the uncontrollable lust issue on your part. LOL Did that guy even understand how lucky he was. Isn't it most guys fantasy to have a woman all over them all of the time?
His Lilith was conjunct my Sun. It didn't help that we had a composite Venus/Pluto with Lilith on our 8th house either.
HOT. HOT. HOT.
I was in a committed relationship and he had a GF at the time. Homewreckers unite!
Like strawb., I resisted as much as possible. I, too, hope to find the same kind of connection without the homewrecking aspects to it.