@buendia he was already making the changes before we split, im just happy he is sticking with them and thank you
I think you're like a family connection to him. 14 years is a long time.
He seems like he is a nice guy at first forsure has a good heart but also critical of everything sometimes and emotional… feelings get hurt easy they don’t like to admit it, but probably anger issues maybe from his child hood but attached to home or family even if he moves away he will always be attached to that part but the Gemini rising helps give a playful cool persona and libra mars is sweet but when they are angry it can be hateful forsure don’t know if this is him I’m just going off of my own experience with these placements
I commented on the Virgo chart 🫥 the wrong dang chart .. I was wondering why I was reading he was trying to talk again while being all that Virgo in a relationship lol the Virgo seems like a loyal one anyway
@mirandag Were the first comments about the Aquarius chart or Virgo?im the Virgo and yes very loyal. Loyalty isn’t his strength:) Around yr 7 of our relationship, he moved out and moved in with another woman about three weeks later. I took him back, stupid yes, he never moved back in with me but ww attempted to repair the relationship. He made a lot of changes, stopped the drinking, started working out daily, got a decent job and became very involved in his religion. So involved, he decided we should stop having sex , this lasted about six months and my patience started wearing thin because he also didn’t want to get married so we wouldn’t be “ sinning”. Once he realized I was done, he decided it was ok to have sex again lol but too late for me and I broke it off then he met the woman he’s with now which I might add, lives in my neighborhood, is a Virgo also and the same ethnicity I am, I guess he has a definite type now. Anyway I guess I never thought my needs mattered much to him so it surprises me he continues to keep contact. Maybe it’s a feeling of guilt?
@kimmyness yes I was looking at the Virgo chart ! And then I realized the other comments and I was like omgosh lol.. but he’s probably trying to keep that contact that’s so weird y’all are in the same neighborhood.. you deserve so much better anyway so congratulations on leaving bc you will find so much better unless you have already! Don’t let him play those mind games with you.. even if he acts like it’s just innocent
I was with an Aquarius with an Aries moon for 7 years. My experience is that they care more about what you can do for them than the other way around.
He calls you because you pick up the phone and he gets attention 😉
@shortpants I considered that too but hoped it was more than that since it’s been a couple years now. The last time we talked, he wanted to get together for coffee but I turned him down. I’ll just stop answering the phone. Thanks for looking at the charts.
@kimmyness You mentioned earlier that he moved in with another woman 7 years into the relationship. I'd bet good money that his current girlfriend has no idea he's spending two hours on the phone with his longtime ex.
It seems to me that he arranges things just how he likes them, and everyone lets him do it. Both his Venus and 7th house ruler (Jupiter) is hidden away in the 12th house: You may never know the full story, but it doesn't matter. What matters is how you feel about it and whether you feel used.
@shortpants oddly enough, I don’t. Up until this last conversation, the contact didn’t affect me in the least bit. I think this last conversation made me feel nostalgic because we hadn’t talked like that in a very long time. I’m not sure if she has any idea. Anyway it probably is best to not have any contact while they’re involved.