I get along with everyone at every job I've ever had but a woman at work appears to dislike me intensely. She left her job when she moved to another state and I was hired to replace her. Then she decided after 2 years that she was coming back and she wanted her old job back. I would not leave, so the bosses found her another position...one that no one else would take. It was either that or nothing, so she took it. She has hated me ever since. Sorry, I was not hired as a temp. I do not feel bad for refusing to take the job she now occupies just so she could have her old job back but I do feel bad about her constant efforts to make me miserable. I believe I have won every battle that she has started with me but she still doesn't stop trying and she's been in my hair for seven years now. I'm Aries, she's Aquarius. I believe she has something seriously wrong with her because her attacks come about every two months. She ran off another employee who had had enough of her and has made our lone male employee cry. She's a piece of work, that one is.
I had a colleague with the same basic problem as the one Candela mentioned. The charm, the lies, the super-sensitivity to criticism, and oh my goodness, the rage. I think the official term for it is "narcissistic rage". He would get like this with his boss (who was a minority and a female), and he got away with it for years because he had charmed upper management and gotten them to be on his side against her. It took me a very long time to pinpoint what his real problem was. Pluto was transiting my 6th, squaring my MC. Super fun times.
My mom works in a psychiatric facility. I envy her because she works with people that have diagnosed conditions and get appropriate treatment, whereas in my workplace (that is not a psychiatric facility) no one is diagnosed, no one is on appropriate treatment and we desperately need to be.
Omg, yes...lol. Have you ever worked with someone who had an honest to god personality disorder and actually had the opportunity to look at their natal chart as well? I was just thinking about passive aggressivenes in the work place today actually. I'm working with someone like this- a hospice nurse aide. The woman is almost 60 and acts like shes in her 20s. I am so tired of biting my toungue around her and starting to wonder if this makes me passive aggressive also! Problem is my clients adore her, so she has some power. (power struggles...mom issues at the core) All I can do is pray.
PIseas314 said
I'm working with someone like this- a hospice nurse aide. The woman is almost 60 and acts like shes in her 20s. Problem is my clients adore her, so she has some power. (power struggles...mom issues at the core)
How exactly does she act? How is she supposed to act?
If your clients are dying patients in a hospice, their needs come before yours.
If you recognize that she triggers some bad memories of your relationship with your mother, that is something only you can change.
AriesChick, I know, I know, and I know. Lol. Thank you for your concern.
My client is number 1. My client adores me and I her. How this nurse aide acts is seperate.
This is a problem you know, reading into what people write as if you know a whole story in a few sentences.