cruising some guy - ha! love it. 

Give 'em my Pluto Scorpio glare then a smile.

I’ve got Saturn in 5th house natal. Chat him up! Is there a personality behind his looks? I may be shy of having to take center stage, but I thrive at one on one situations. I’m not overly girly and my voice will never change around a guy ( had a friend who used to change her voice when she talked to guys and I always found that ludicrous). Have a conversation, insert a joke, be a little flirtatious. 

Some good tips here already. I love BellaDonna’s “Pluto glare and smile”. I think this is very affective in the early stages. The glare is sexy, and the smile is disarming. I really think being non verbal with sexy/open body language initially is the way to go. Because you are not verbalising there’s an element of mystery and it gives the receiver something more to wonder/fantasise about.

What I picked up about bar in the sky’s post was to be your total self (no changing tone of voice etc). Man, I couldn’t agree more. When you get to chatting, the key is to be the authentic you.

I think it’s also handy to keep some tricks up your sleeve. Like, don’t reveal too much too soon. What we want to do is arouse his interest and get him wondering about the parts of you he doesn’t know. The more brain space we take up in these creatures, the better. We have to remember where sex begins; The Brain. It’s good to keep him guessing a bit. Also, having men long for us is important. It’s good if initially we are not overly available. Continue seeing friends doing hobbies etc.. Give him time and space to miss and crave you.

ohhhh…this is a fun topic. I’ll see whether I can come up with more stuff later 💋