I dated Scorpios before and my current boyfriend is a Scorpio. My experience with them has been this: their interest was 100% obvious, they called me, texted me, asked me out, asked questions about me all the time, wanted to spend a lot of time together, etc. I knew from the first day they were interested and there was no doubt about it.
orchidorchid said
Honestly, when Scorps are ready to envelop you in their claws, they dive right in.When Scorps are hesitant, their chart is either full of air, or you're not their type.
lol when I read that part on full of air, I was thinking of Leonardo Di Caprio immediately. And he is practically 50% (mostly Libra planets), the rest water, and look, he is not committed to anyone yet in his middle aged. He is cancer energy dominant, I saw on astro.com and astrotheme, so he has dated two cancer sun supermodels but they didn't last long.
I like that answer too! it's all in or not.
elisa said
lol when I read that part on full of air, I was thinking of Leonardo Di Caprio immediately. And he is practically 50% (mostly Libra planets), the rest water, and look, he is not committed to anyone yet in his middle aged. He is cancer energy dominant, I saw on astro.com and astrotheme, so he has dated two cancer sun supermodels but they didn't last long.
I like that answer too! it's all in or not.
But he has at least had (not certain of that status right now) a very longstanding roommate, though. This has stirred many rumors on his sexual orientation, and sure enough, the breakups from model girlfriends have been almost too neat.
I think there are too many factors in life and even in a person's natal chart to really pinpoint a reason for someone's lack of commitment. I know that I personally have ALOT of issues with commitment and Scorpio is my dominant sign. I've always blamed my Gemini Venus on my issues with commitment but I think that this is only a small part. Pluto is conjunct my Scorpio ascendant and I feel like this is the source of my power complex. I always need to be in control of my life, in every way. The hardest part of being in a relationship is that you need to compromise and to me compromising gives the other person power over me. Don't get me wrong, in other parts of my life I am very laid back and easy going. But when it comes to close romantic relationships the thought of a girlfriend feeling like she has any kind of control over me is terrifying. Don't worry I'm already aware of how neurotic I am xD Another aspect of my chart which I feel adds to my relationship troubles is my Mars. It's in Aries....so that added to my intense Scorpio aspect gives me an insanely high sex drive. And when my Venus in Gemini is factored in it makes me get bored very easily. So all in all I do not do well in relationships lol
Glenn, in saying lady like do you mean, hard to get ? I think the art of dating just does not exist the way it did for us older folks. Unless men have changed my experience is that they like a little bit of a chase. Nothing is worth having if it comes too easy.
I really really want this thing but I'll pretend I don't just for fun. Or maybe I'm confused about if I want it? Deep feelings are so hard for me. I'll sit and waffle and risk losing it completely.
No that does not sound like a Scorp.