This is phenomenal transit that essentially breaks you down, down to the ground.  You're dead there for awhile. There's a void before you're able to rise from the ashes.

Invariably, you encounter men (or a man) with depth and power. But this could be your father... like the shadow-side of your father. You collide with this some how.

You're stripped of all pretense, ego, pride, etc.  You may lose your vocation in some instances.

I know you are asking about intimate relationships but the things I mention are part of that.  You're very likely to tango with a Scorpio. Parts of you, you don't know exist will be accessed, releasing energy that's hard to deal with.

I got kicked off a mailing list for "Plutonians" when I had this transit. I was told I was too intense and I was upsetting people.  How's that for repulsive? 

Oh god no....

 I barley lived trough Moon Square Pluto. Commited suicide and only survived by coincidence.

I have a 4-degree Scorpio sun. I can feel this trash already. My intensity just keeps growing but I am taking it out on music and an alter ego on TikTok ... just sh!t posting about nothing that makes sense ... probably scaring the life out of people ... and I know the folks back home have some popcorn and are watching it like ... what happened to the sweet woman that used own that little shop on main. We had no idea she has all this going on... knowing this you know I giggle. I should remember that I could possibly have to go back there- because life is strange ... who knows, and I will be known as the town lunatic LOL 

My youngest son apparently was reading it w/o my knowledge and first texted me. Asked... did you put a hex on me? I just answered yes. He said back... I knew it. And thanks. Haha Haha like I have the power to hex people LOL then he called immediately and was laughing. He said... MOM. I thought I knew you better than anyone. Where did you learn all this stars shiz? He then wanted a complete breakdown of his birth chart LOL He has 3 planets in Gemini Sun Mercury and Venus. (Also, his NN and Chiron) and his daughter is loaded with Gemini too. Oh, what he is going through right now. He talked to me (rather at me) for 2 hours. 

At any rate I can feel this square coming. I thought you had to get somewhat ruthless as the orb gets tighter. I hope that freaking stalker isn't the male figure coming in because I am not in the mood for any BS.

I have been stripped down to near nothing. I haven't looked in a mirror. My father has passed away. I am away from everyone I have ever known and loved. My job is gone, home gone, way of life gone. Good lord. Take anything else and I will just be DOA. 

A slightly tangential (& kind of contrarian) comment; I had tr.pluto (in Sag) square n.sun (in Virgo) when I was a kid, & the whole thing just...passed me by. I always assumed it had something to do with me being just a little girl at the time. OTOH, tr.pluto conjunct IC & then n.moon? That was truly, vomit-inducing. Won't wish it on my worst enemy.

Pluto transited square my Sun about the time I left grad school and started work full time. It was the end of a career path and the beginning of a backup plan career.  It wasn't what I'd planned.