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Hi!

I’ll be traveling to NY in September for a few days with my daughter for a few days and will be meeting a former coworker that I worked with remotely for two years, he left the company a year ago but we still talk pretty much daily. I’m going because I’ve always wanted to visit NY, he happens to live on Long Island. Point is, our friendship has been formed over work calls, chats, after work calls and texts. I’m just curious to know if it’ll be a good first time face to face meeting? We’ re only friends, he’s legally married but separated for 5 yrs and would most likely reconcile with his wife if she had interest so i just want to make that clear. Thanks for looking!

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You posted the female chart twice.

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@elsa sorry about that, I posted mine twice on accident and couldn’t figure out how to delete one of them. I wasn’t sure if I needed to add his. This is his. Thanks again

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Any opinions on the charts? There’s no romantic interest on my part. 1) he’s separated 2) he lives in NY and I’m in Fl just curious to know if the in person meeting will go well or if it won’t translate over into “ real” life. Thanks to any replies.

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I'm sorry no one has responded. Speaking for myself,  generally there IS romantic interest in a situation like this, by one or the other.  But if not, I would expect you both to have an enhanced version of what's usual for you.

I went to NY to see a platonic male friend. He also came to my house and slept in the other bunk bed in my son's bedroom.  We had a great time. Exactly like online,  but there was a hug.

I would look at it like an adventure.  I don't see how it can go wrong.

Please let us know!

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@elsa will do, thanks for responding!

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