cheesemissile said
I believe in the "woman's intuition", if you are truly curious, you will find out.
I kinda believe this, too.
I might be biased, because I have Venus in Virgo. But I really think it all comes down to the amount of attention you pay to little details. Of course, as Candela pointed out, the woman's age might play a role. But I like to think of myself as a good observer and I was definitely able to sniff a liar in the past. Sometimes I can get pretty much paranoid and see evil where there isn't any but if you pay attention, you will notice when something's wrong.
It would be very hard to hide from me unless someone was an *exceptional* liar. On the other hand I understand a woman being suspicious and convincing herself her man is cheating even if hes not. It's hard to know where your paranoia ends and where reality begins sometimes especially when there is no proof. Im someone that everything makes me suspicious. You can notice distance and a shift in his interest or attentiveness but that can be due to other things too....
I think he's mostly right...but it's possible to be blindsided. It does happen.
I never assume the woman knows, but I know a lot of people who do.
Elsa said
I never assume the woman knows, but I know a lot of people who do.
I think it kind of sucks if people think this because then they might assume that the woman gets what she deserves if they think she "knows" and is "allowing" it to happen. It doesn't make sense to me. I think anybody who is being cheated on probably deserves sympathy.
I think water signs...Scorpio would be likely to know. And I don't think they realize how oblivious some people are. I have met many a woman who had no clue. But the majority of them do suspect...and perhaps confront and then believe the lie or what to live in hope.
I understand this. It's a horrible thing to go through.
I believe some do know and I believe some don't. But maybe the ones who do but try not to believe, maybe they aren't ready to accept it yet. It's not easy to confront the possibility that your world might be imploding all around you. I wouldn't blame anyone for that or at least I would sympathize. You come to create a mindset that protects you, for good or bad.