I have a great friend. She recently told me she liked this guy at our acting group. I have a little crush on him myself, as I think he’s really good looking and he’s also a good friend. But the point is my friend doesn’t really pay attention to me anymore. She uses me to make herself look better around her crush/my crush, so I don’t feel like she’s being a genuine friend. She just wants to use me as a prop and then she’s all over him around me.
My heart is broken both ways. Please help.
17 Year Old
A friend who goes after the guy you want is no friend at all. However, does she know how you feel? It doesn’t sound as if you have told either your friend or this guy how you feel. And if this is the case, I’m not sure she is doing anything wrong! Other than being driven by her hormones that is, which happens.
Try this: tell your friend that you like this guy and her pursuit of him is making you feel uncomfortable. If at that point, she still wants to pursue him, then I would step out of the way. Let her go after him… withdraw from the guy and you can be sure if he’s interested in you, he will duck and dodge her and come in your direction. And if not?
Well then you need to know if he’s not interested so you can let can let go and find a guy who is. And the astrology?
You have Venus and Mars in Pisces and I don’t think anyone knows what you’re up to. And it’s okay to be somewhat vague about your intentions but there is such a thing as too much of a good thing – so I’m hoping the plan outlined above will honor your nature but move things along.