Dear Elsa, To get right to the point, I am completely consumed with worry. This have been going on since I was a kid. And when I say that worry consumes me, I mean just that; it literally eats me alive. Monday, I’m convinced I am having a heart attack; Tuesday, I have AIDS; Wednesday, […]
Dear Elsa, I have a great life for the most part. I’m making great grades in college, I have a wonderful relationship, and generally feel as if I’m making progress in my life. But there’s one thing that keeps coming up in my life. I have a crippling fear of sexual intimacy. I have no
It occurred to me yesterday, that at the moment, I am surrounded by Taurus and they’re all men. There is my son and my ex who has been close by because of the holidays. There’s my husband, the Salesman, and my editor, HQ who has a Taurus Moon! Am I stable yet?? You meet Taurus
Dear Elsa, I was wondering if you had any advice on how to deal with my Virgo ex-boyfriend. He was my first serious relationship, and keeps coming in and out of my life. I met him 4 years ago and we dated for one intense month. Unfortunately, he let me give him my virginity before
As far as overcoming pathology goes, I think it’s particularly challenging if you have oppositions in your chart. Because when someone has an opposition in their chart (and most people do) they tend to project. “It’s not me! It’s him, or her, or my mother or the dog! But no matter what it is, it
Dear Elsa, I have a childhood sweetheart who visited my city five months ago, after an absence of over 10 years. We discovered that we’re still crazy about each other; however, he’s already married. We’ve decided to keep apart as it’s the right thing to do. We live halfway around the world from each other.
Dear Elsa, I’ve been married for 2 plus years to an incredibly narcissistic and selfish man. We have a sexless, non-communicative relationship. Initially I couldn’t believe this person who professed to love me more than anyone ever would hurt me intentionally every single day and show absolutely no remorse. He has said and done horrendous
Dear Elsa, My husband has been lying to me A LOT. I’ve just realized that he’s a compulsive liar and I really don’t know what to do. We’ve been married for three years and I first caught him lying a couple of years ago – about smoking cigarettes – and then a few other times
