Getting married, being married, staying married.
John Gottman who is a psychologist who wrote, The Mathematics of Marriage: Dynamic Nonlinear Models. He studied relationship in an effort to be able to predict who would divorce with very limited data. He came up with a super effective formula. He claims he can can listen to a couple talk about anything, for one hour, […]
I like to socialize. I was in a small group of adults the other day, meeting for our common interest. There were about a dozen of us. I had my Woman’s Club until it folded last year, after roughly 85 years. I still meet with a couple of the women monthly, but I miss the larger group so I
I was raised without religion. I was not raised to think that marriage vows meant anything. Really, I had no idea what marriage was or what it meant. If anything, I thought it was something I should avoid. I had no earthly clue as to how marriage might be beneficial or in any way, important. My
Hi, Elsa, Mercury is in retrograde, I’m a little nervous about the wedding. Actually the plans were fine up until we entered retrograde then it all fell apart. The wedding is still on. Now my fiancé threw a promotion that he received at me. Did he have to accept it no. He really wants the
I mentioned the priest’s remark about my development, out of context. There was enough interest in the post, I thought I’d elaborate, because it’s interesting and it ties in my last two posts. We were talking to the priest about our marriage, but really, about marriage in general.
Our wedding anniversary is Friday. We got married with a stellium in Libra in the 7th house. Venus and the Moon square Pluto in Capricorn. Uranus is conjunct the ascendant of the event chart, opposing Venus (and Saturn in Virgo). We have a great marriage. It just goes to show you, not to be afraid of
I had a client the other day, she’s one of those people who are “bound”. Specifically, she has harsh aspects from Saturn. Her husband has no such thing in his chart. It seems this strains a relationship.
