Cheating / Adultery from many angles…
Dear Elsa, I am 30 years old, and have been through a handful of relationships. I have tried to be selective about those I have partnered with… and yet out of the 5 relationships that actually became physically intimate, 3 of the men cheated on me – 2 of them after 4 years together. I […]
Hi Elsa, I’ve been in a relationship for 12 years. I am 35 years old and have 3 children. I left my husband last year because he had been cheating on me for the past years, which I got tired of. He has children with other women. A couple of months ago I met this
Hi Elsa, I’m a freelancer and met a guy online through a job I did. Right away we seemed to hit it off, and then we met when I went to his city and it was instant attraction. Total physical attraction, and we were also on the same intellectual and emotional wavelength. We haven’t acted
Dear Elsa, I am unhappily married with a 7 year old son. Two years ago I had an affair with a man who I fell in love with. I want to grow old and spend the rest of my life with him. But we decided to end the affair, as it was wrong. It has
Dear Elsa, I am involved with a married man who has children. I believe that he loves me, and I certainly love him. This is a deep and significant connection unrivaled by my previous relationships. That said, as a result of this relationship both of us have lost weight, and our performances in our respective professions have also
Can you give me some advice? My lying cheat of 20 years has done it AGAIN! It has been ongoing as you can tell. I have told him it’s over, but I haven’t felt the need to tell him everything I know. It’s my way of having one up on him… I think? My problem
Dear Elsa, I’ve been friends with a male Scorpio for about 20 years now. He’s twelve years my junior. Since August of 2004, I’ve noticed little looks, stares and lots of attention. Just recently, at a large, loud party, he whispered something in my ear about me being beautiful. I could go on and on
Hi, Elsa. About a year ago I sent you birth data on me and a guy I had started dating. You told me that in 30 years, you’d never seen two people match so well… and one of the things you said was to quit looking for dirt on him, and quit looking in his
