I wrote this for a client: “…You have a deep fear that you suck. If you invest in that, you will wind up rejecting someone, as a preemptive strike. You feel you will be rejected so you beat them to it. If you don’t control this tendency, you’re going to reject everyone in an attempt […]
“Hey Elsa, All else being equal, how would you feel about marrying someone with Saturn in the Seventh?” Boy, that’s a good question. The traditional interpretation of Saturn in the 7th house (or any other Venus Saturn exchange) is that relationship are burdensome. There are other manifestations of course. People marry older partners, controlling partners,
It’s 8 years later. My husband and I are still married. With Venus conjunct Saturn in Capricorn, this seems a good time to bring this back up… I was recalling some of the questions my husband asked me before we decided to go forward in our relationship. I wrote about this at the time. He
This is a taboo topic but I have more than one client who has been crushed in relationship because of money. A person overspends. Because of this, the lover does not want to marry them. They’re afraid (Saturn) to marry due to the spending or the debt a person is carrying.
I’m at a point in my career where I’ve consulted with thousands of people. I love this job. I also like to challenge myself. The Venus Saturn workshop that Satori and I worked on is a good example of this. People with Venus in Capricorn or Saturn in the 7th house, Venus aspecting Saturn, Cancer
Many people feel they will never partner successfully. In a study published in Current Directions in Psychological Science, researchers studied some of the ways loneliness is bad for your health. From the press release:
I’m continuing to sort through old content on the site. I ran across a post someone wrote; they’re all excited about a “new man”. I thought to myself, oh no! Because I know that a new man is usually followed by another “new man” and then another and then another and another after that. You
