Dear Elsa, I am constantly being disappointed in love. The men whom I could love simply don’t love me back. The only guy who ever stuck around for me was the one I wasn’t in love with. When I was a child my father rejected me, and ever since then the same thing has been […]
Dear Elsa, As soon as I like somebody and build up a relationship to him I want to be the VIP in his life! I know that sounds immature and maybe it is but this tendency of mine really burdens me and many times it destroys my relationships. I am constantly asking the other if
I was talking to a gal this morning; she would like to fix relationship problems. She has Venus in Capricorn and has to work not to denigrate herself and to feel worthy of love. I know many relate. She really wants to flush her old ways but how? Where does she start. I had some
It pains me that people with Venus opposite Saturn think this aspect is all about loneliness and lack of love. If this is what you think, you’re missing the boat. I’m pulling this post up after talking to a client with Venus in Capricorn this morning. She feels unworthy – I’d like to see her
This was a follow on to this post: Capricorn And Rejection. A lot of people weighed in around how they handled being rejected. I wanted to expand the discussion. Venus is currently conjunct Mars in Capricorn. People don’t feel optimistic about relationships going well, do they’re busting all kinds of defensive (Saturn) moves. Specifically, you
Hi, Elsa. What are the markers of attraction to older men in a chart of a woman? It’s a general question, so I’m not including any birth data. Studying Hi, Studying. There are people who fare well by partnering outside their age range. There are clear markers of such a tendency, shown in chart. It’s
On January 8th, Venus will enter Capricorn. This is not a transit most people find particularly exciting. Love in a business suit. Oh joy. But there is another side to this placement. It means real, practical love. It reminds me of the old Grimm’s fairy tale, “Choosing a Bride.” Life as a young herdsman was
I wrote this for a client: “…You have a deep fear that you suck. If you invest in that, you will wind up rejecting someone, as a preemptive strike. You feel you will be rejected so you beat them to it. If you don’t control this tendency, you’re going to reject everyone in an attempt
