I'm madly in love with a Cancer man.  We've known each other for 16 years and have been romantically involved for a little over a year.... I have no idea what will happen, its been truly a roller coaster with tremendous personal growth involved on both sides.

"I can't tell if he's being a timid cancer with weird communication style or he's playing games."- Right there with you, however, when my intuition really kicks in I think its that he is being a timid cancer and misunderstood.... sigh.

As for not making plans, my Cancer man doesn't like to make a commitment to anything he can not 100% guarantee.  What may be frustrating also is that a Cancer man attracts rather than pursues, which is opposite what we consider to be the case in most men.

We have positive fated aspects such as my Mars conjunct his North Node.  Aspects that are incredibly favorable and one that says destined to fail... sigh.  I am trying to learn as much as possible as all the uncertainty can drive me crazy so am also trying to learn to find the joy in the uncertainty; oy vey!

I have this "feeling" we were meant to be more than friends and to do something important together I can't let go of darnit.  

Any thoughts?