To answer your first question, YES, I have had that experience. During our most recent Venus Rx, in fact, I literally thought of one man every waking hour.
I was no match for the synastry. My Pluto (obsession) was heavily activated, as was my Neptune (longing/delusion), and my Mars (straight-up physical desire). That, plus 6 out of his 10 planets were in my water houses. He just got wayyyyy the hell under my skin. It was no bueno. Ugh.
Definitely Pluto thing.
I always have heavy Pluto contacts, when I'm obsessed from someone 😀
Like the current one lol I have with this men my Pluto/Vertex conjunction exactly conjunct his Moon in Scorpio! If we will count and Neptune-we have my Psyche exactly conjunct his Neptune, also in Scorpio (and his Mercury is there, but widely).
Quirkque said
KidA said
Quirkque, I would love to take a looksy at your charts in synastry! ?
Thanks everyone for the replies...
KidA, I'm uncertain of his exact birth time. But my info is here...
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?btyp=w2gw;rs=3;usechpref=1&nhor=1&cid=ou5fileXi5B7I-u1463038470and his:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?btyp=w2gw;rs=3;usechpref=1&nhor=2&nho2=1
time is correct, this would be the synastry:
YO, YOU NAMED HIM "UGH" I CAN'T. ?
His Saturn squares your Venus honey. Those are ALWAYS so tough in relationships. Elsa refers to Saturn-Venus in synastry as relationship hell, and she ain't lying. I have experienced it myself. You have the same birthday as my little sister, btw. His Pluto squares your Venus. Obsession. Golly, I know this breakup will be tough, but like everything, the pain will be temporary. When you have healed, you can find yourself a nice man who WON'T breakup with you on your birthday. What a dolt.
You have your Venus in the 12th, opposite Saturn, just like me. I am so sorry, lol. ???
KidA said
YO, YOU NAMED HIM "UGH" I CAN'T. ?
His Saturn squares your Venus honey. Those are ALWAYS so tough in relationships. Elsa refers to Saturn-Venus in synastry as relationship hell, and she ain't lying. I have experienced it myself. You have the same birthday as my little sister, btw. His Pluto squares your Venus. Obsession. Golly, I know this breakup will be tough, but like everything, the pain will be temporary. When you have healed, you can find yourself a nice man who WON'T breakup with you on your birthday. What a dolt.
You have your Venus in the 12th, opposite Saturn, just like me. I am so sorry, lol. ???
Yeah. Best name I could come up with, lol. Very accurate.
Well that explains it. Saturn-Venus. It could be hell at times. When it was good it was heaven, when it was bad it was hell.
I figured Pluto was involved. There was obsession on both sides. The relationship was super Plutonian. But wow Pluto makes it so intense.
And the pain of losing him has been crazy bad.
Finding a nice man... God I hope so. I can't even think about that yet (I'm already dating but it's for fun only). I did meet a nice Virgo who is my rock right now. Seems like God put us together to heal each other.
Yeah my chart is awful. I'm pretty sure it's the reason I always say I was cursed at birth. I'm sorry you have a similar Venusian affliction. Lol 12th house is bad on its own man.
Pluto - Venus.
Yes, My second love. I was just 19 when we broke up. I was completely open to him. I gave up a lot to be with him. He was a cancer, I am a scorp. I don't know his asc fo but I think It was a Leo. That relationship taught me to hold a little bit of myself back.