Scorpios like to play mind games and they do blow hot and cold. They can come on all strong and then back off and go back into their depths and wait to see what you do. It is up to you to play the game with them or walk away from them. If you really like the Scorp, be aloof and go about your life as normal. And please don't try to make them jealous, that can be dangerous. Just let them know that you can make it without them and if he is really interested, that should bring him right back to you. Don't be so eager with him either. If he goes cold, toss the ball right back at him and as I said, if he really wants you, he will pick up the challenge. Scorpios love challenges.
But if he isn't really interested, he won't come back for round two.

Glenn said

Hmmm...... No. I'm thinking more like...... how she behaves / carries herself / dignified.

This is why I had to "re-write" what I wrote several times. "Lady-like" is difficult to define, but you know it when you see it.

I'll describe it this way..... Modesty.

• Her clothes..... comfortable, but not "advertising" (too lose, too tight, showing "private parts"etc.).

• Her makeup..... accents facial features but doesn't imply the traditional "Lady of the Night".

You're right, Opalina....... this is definitely different meaning between Generations.

I'm seeing women whose "bra straps" are showing every day. THAT was a fashion taboo back when I was younger. Sweats / Exercise clothes / Sleeping clothes...... worn "in Public" every day. It's like there is no dignity in Public anymore.

As a guy, I Loooove a petite woman whose clothing "covers everything up"...... but just "hints" at what's underneath it all. Lady-like...... that's part of how I define it.  

Glenn..Ok That is how I thought you meant it. Yes I think that definition has changed over the years,

I think Glenn means, don't dress like this...

..and expect to not get judged.

Pearl said
A Scorpio man that's afraid of commitment ... put their passion & focus on a lover, but then disband when getting too close. Why?

I realize there can be a million factors, just wanted to hear some general responses...

 

Scared of getting hurt? 

Enjoys being a playing the game too much? 

What are some of your experiences/observations?  

My intuition is telling me that he is playing games. Scorpio tests. What can I get away with with this person? How little can I give? Where is this person uncompromising? Of course these tests can make them detestable themselves, which they know. That does not mean he's interested in you. It doesn't mean he's not. I think the fact that he's already pulled away and then was allowed to come back is very telling of how much he values you. It wouldn't make me feel great. You're there when he needs an energy exchange but where is he when you need somethimg? That's just my opinion though. I have some pretty outrageous standards and it's kept me alone, so.

And I doubt he's scared of getting hurt. That would make him latch on to an extreme degree. In an attempt to control. 

And I doubt that it has much to do with whether your bra strap is showing although I do get what Glenn is saying. I think. It's about dignity. If I were you I wouldn't worry so much about his motives but more about how he's making you feel. How does it feel when he pulls away? How does it feel when he cones back? Make a judgement based on those feelings rather than guessing what he's doing. This way you will win either way, in the sense that you will learn about yourself. Good stuff.

 Instead about these guessing games about what the scorp is up to , why not just ask him? If you think he thinks you are not up to his standards why even give him a second thought?

anonymoushermit said
I think Glenn means, don't dress like this...

  

..and expect to not get judged.  

 The last 2 photos its obvious they are hookers, The first one I think is really cute. Hmm and I am an old lady