Also, that first one very much. I hate when people know all about me, but have never interacted with me. For example, if I have someone friended on social media, and they never interact with me, but I hear through others they were discussing something I shared. If it happens once, fine, but more than once, and I’ll probably always be wary of them.
Anyone who doesn't like animals. Anyone who plays the victim card. Anyone who flatters. Anyone who treats badly those who serve them. Anyone who brags or boasts.
This thread makes me wary. What if I'm the person people are wary about? They may be mistaken about me, but I can't prove it. Or they may right, which is even worse.
i'm pretty forgiving of peoplé's downfall, or negatives, so i dont really get any wariness of anyone i meet or know through acquaintance. (at least not that i think of, so if its not relevant i dont think i am. I'm forgetful so...)I am wayyyyy too trusting especially in my younger years, where i got swindled alot. I even sat in my first car outside the supermarket when this man said he wanted to borrow 35 to 50, and would double it. LOL i was like if you really need it but ok if you can double it. He never showed up. Me and my husband are too trusting, thats why even he got swindled 10k. I am reminded of a passage from Jane Austin's "pride and prejudice"... the eldest daughter married a 2nd wealthy man (because the number 1 most wealthiest man in the book of course is Darcy who married the main character) but the passage struck me, because it was Elizabeth Bennett who was worried about her sister and new husband who were too trusting that it's a wonder if they are gonna be broke!!! everyone is out to swindle. Its as if people want to bring out the bad side of them and take advantage and say it's justified because of stupidity. LOL haha so dumb. those are people with no conscience anyway. no moral compass.
but still, when i get an alert signal in my head which doesn't come often, i pay attention to it. like something wicked comes this way feeling. thankfully it doesn't come often. the guy who stole from a teenaged girl years ago, wasn't wicked or bad but he was doing criminal things. But i felt he was not a bad psychopath just needed money and was desperate enough to swindle a teenaged girl.
there was this girl who was shot in a fast food restaurant years ago, i read, because some guy wanted to give her a counterfeit to pay for chicken bucket and she did not allow it. The man came back in with a gun and shot her dead. i can't wrap my head around how bad some people have gotten when they have become so criminal, making counterfeit, doing drugs and shooting people dead over fried chicken.
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