“…you have Venus in Aries which is inclined to start things and then lose interest. But you also have Saturn aspecting Venus. Ultimately if you don’t learn to commit, you are going to feel bad about yourself. It’s a lack of discipline, see? Take Venus in Aries as a soldier. Do you quit the first […]
Dear Elsa, My fiance has told me several times that I’m rude. She’s not the only one that has told me that. I’ve heard this many many times before throughout my life. That I interrupt, that I’m patronizing, that I’m selfish in conversation, and that in conversation I say things in a rude tone of
I was talking to a friend the other night – she’s taken a bad hit in her life. I was surprised when I heard her story. The trauma was completely unexpected (Uranus sq Pluto). I was immediately aware of both the depth and breadth of what had happened. You know how a person can get
There was a great discussion on the post, Losing A Friend Because Your Opinion Is Not Theirs. Medbh wrote about insiders and outsiders. I’m glad she did. It made me realize I will always be an outsider. It’s just not possible for me to get on the inside of any group, given my background, my
Recently I worked with a sensitive young woman who was dating a new man. While she liked him a lot, she was not sure that he felt what she felt. She was shocked (but laughed) when I told her that I was sure he was not feeling what she felt! I also said that I
My son is a teenager now. He’s trying to work things out. It gets dicey around here on occasion. I have no experience with hormonal boys and I’m frequently baffled, which can irritate me at times. My son displays a range of emotions. I know this is normal, but when we are cooped up in
Recently I lost a friend who was dear to me. I don’t spend a terrific amount of time with her, but the time I did spend with her was precious to me. I’m pretty sure she’s gone. If she is gone, I know the reason for it. A man came into (the periphery) of my
“Is this the hill you want to die on?” “Choose your battles.” Those phrases are commonly used these days. They have value but I want to take a deeper look. The things that irk my husband and cause him to react are rarely things that irk me. Many things that infuriate me don’t bother him
