I wrote about “gaslighting” in today’s newsletter – Invisible Gas Attack. A reader in the United States asks: “That term Gaslighting, could it be a type of hypnosis? And could there ever be a time, you feel, it could be for a good rather than just for selfish purpose? De demonization things can sometimes help […]
Sometimes it’s best if you give a person space (and time) to work out the kinks in their life. A person who is acting wonky may be trying hard to carve out a niche for themselves… Generally speaking, people don’t like this. They want to hold other people close. They don’t want to deal with
My husband has a habit of running into people in his past in the strangest places. He tends to collide with people who have done him wrong, long after they’ve forgotten him. They’re always surprised how acute his memory is. (Taurus / Scorpio)
That’s “D” in the foreground of the picture. He’s a character on the TV show, “Chance”. The show is ridiculous except for when it’s not. In one episode, “D”, tells a young woman, a teenager, that she should thank her bullies. He explains the bullies are doing her a great favor because they force her
Recently, someone told me the worst thing someone could do to her was to make her care. I thought this was profound. It made sense to me. To care is to be vulnerable. Caring can be exquisitely painful. Though I understood this, and was impressed she could state it so plainly, I can’t say I
