Advice on anything and everything under the sun!
Dear Elsa, Last January, I lost my husband of 21 years and the father of my two teenage sons. I have recently become engaged to a man I love very dearly. The man I have met and fell in love with seems to have secrets. We have gotten to the point he stays over at […]
Dear Elsa, Well, I’ve been wondering about something for quite some time now. It’s about my sexual preferences. I’m aggressive. Touchy-feely and I tend to be insatiable when it comes to sex. Plus, I’m into girls as well as men. Umm. Maybe more in to girls than in to men. But I don’t understand why
Dear Elsa, I have a 2 year old baby girl. Her father was abusive to me most all of our relationship. I left him when she was just 2 months old. He was found guilty on 4 counts of domestic violence. But I still continued to let him have visitation with our baby, believing he
Good Day Elsa, Some years ago, as a teenager and young adult, I belonged to a Christian church and a woman’s group. Due to the influence of these groups, I became someone unrecognizable. I went from being a shy moody girl to being an over zealous, self-righteous, bible quoting, hand waving, and hallelujah shouting fanatic.
Elsa, I’ll start by saying that I lived in Texas for about five years prior and dated a woman for four of them. We became very close and she always seemed to care about what I thought… but we had problems. I caught her coming -very- close to cheating on several occasions. Due to money
Hey Elsa, How important is it to have a Best Friend in your life? I’ve “had” three in my life so far. Second one dumped me on/off like a rock for another girl, simply cause their boyfriends are really close. I tried my best to at least be there for her when she needed it,
Dear Elsa, I have fallen in love with a close friend. From everything he does, it seems to me that he loves me back, or at least reciprocates the feelings in some measure. But most of what he says, seem to show that he is not interested. I am torn apart and don’t know what
Dear Elsa, My relationship with my Piscean man started off with friendship. I was sexually assaulted a year into our friendship by someone else. He remained by my side, and nursed me back from the brink of emotional collapse. Unbeknownst to me, it somehow involved into something more. We become involved in an intimate relationship,
