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Someone linked an article in the NYT in the forum – Narcissism No Longer a Psychiatric Disorder. “Narcissistic personality disorder, characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance and the need for constant attention, has been eliminated from the upcoming manual of mental disorders, which psychiatrists use to diagnose mental illness…” Unrelated, outside the fact I […]
If my lover or husband cheated on me I would end the relationship instantly, without ceremony. I have felt this way all my life and it has been completely understood by every man I have ever known. Every man I have ever known has felt the same way I do. But I know that many
Have you ever been involved in a power struggle in a relationship that eventually came to an impasse? What happened? Did the relationship die or quit? Did someone cave? If someone caved, did they resent it later? Or did the relationship go on to heal and thrive? Do you have ways of resolving a deadlock
My ex and mega-Scorpio, the AMF, made me aware of “happy people” in the world. He was astute. He pointed out that I was a happy person as were various people we’d run across. A waitress with a wide grin for example. Just random people we’d see. He’d always notice the happy ones because he
“There are painters who transform the sun to a yellow spot, but there are others who with the help of their art and their intelligence, transform a yellow spot into the sun.” – Pablo Picasso I agree with him. All energy is neutral until it’s directed. Some people direct energy better than others. What do
I was on the phone with a friend, having a cup of decaf… “I have some new cups,” I said. “I got them today. They’re plain. I like them. They’re not trying.” “Not trying?” “You know. Not trying to be anything. They’re just plain. They are nothing cups and I like them.” “Everything I have
“Why do guys mention other women while in a relationship? I know this guy and he keeps mentioning other women. Oh this one fancies me, must phone her etc. I thought he liked me but am beginning to think the opposite…” Two things that come to my mind. First he’s probably insecure. Anyone confident about
