The 7th house is concerned with partnering. In the realm of relationships, once through the 7th house, you come to the 8th. In the 7th house, you marry. In the 8th house, you go deeper. In the 8th house, people grapple with pathology. Their pathology, their partner’s pathology or whatever. It’s at this stage, people […]
Relationship triangles are common when Venus aspects Pluto. There is often a femme fatale involved in some form. She may be in the flesh. She may live in the memory of one of the parties or in someone’s paranoia but one way or the other, love becomes psychological. I notice, while there are three players,
My ex and mega-Scorpio, the AMF, made me aware of “happy people” in the world. He was astute. He pointed out that I was a happy person as were various people we’d run across. A waitress with a wide grin for example. Just random people we’d see. He’d always notice the happy ones because he
Thanks everyone for your good wishes. We appreciate it! We’re both happy as hell and I’ll tell you more as soon as we’re settled down. I know most would be curious as to why I am writing on my blog the day after I got married and it’s simple. The soldier has to leave tomorrow
Dear Elsa, Can I stop taunting myself by imagining how I compare up with all this guy’s other exes already? I’m a big enough girl to know better. I just keep imagining reasons why I’m not all that important to him though everything (including, notably, the way he treats me) says I am. But words
Hi Elsa, My mother and my aunt passed away last year, and I am having difficulty accepting this as well as dealing with life in general. I get rather down, depressed, and feel hopeless. I want some kind of connection with them and to know how they are doing (I guess that seems rather odd).
Dear Elsa, I find myself wanting more than what I have. I am exercising regularly, going out with friends, and working on my art… yet I feel strangely empty a great deal of the time. I feel like I’m at a huge crossroads in my life. I’ve undergone a great many physical and emotional changes
