Hi Elsa,
I’m currently a 27-year-old single female. I have never had a serious relationship that wasn’t with either a married man (2) or a girl (1). I get asked out on dates periodically, but it seems I can never move past that 1 or 2 date thing – unless the guy is already spoken for.
I wonder if this will be the trend for the rest of my life. Will I ever find someone to spend my life with?
Beginning To Wonder
Dear Beginning,
No, I don’t think this will be the trend for the rest of your life, provided you decide you want something different. Do you want something different? I think you might, but let me help you get a few things clear.
As a Sagittarius with an Aquarius rising, you like your independence. You don’t want anyone telling you what to do, that’s for sure. You don’t want to be restricted and your relationships reflect this.
As long as this is what you want… this is what you will have. But what if you want something different? What if you want something more “contained”?
If this is the case, you might decide to start restricting yourself. And you might start looking a little deeper. You have Venus in Scorpio, for one thing. You might want to start thinking about the psychology behind your relationships. For example, the married men…
When you take up with another woman’s man, you are almost guaranteed there’s an exit. If he doesn’t cut if off, you can at any time. Obviously this serves you. It serves a side of you anyway, but do you know I think?
I think your Scorp side has had enough of this pattern, and wants a new game. I think you’re ready for a more deeply satisfying meal. On that note, I’ll quote a Scorpio pal of mine:
“Pull your horns in,” he told me recently when I was struggling regarding direction. He thought I should stop charging while I figured some things out.
I think you’ll benefit from too. Pull your horns in, regroup, then come out swinging.
Good luck.
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“Pull your horns in, regroup, then come out swinging.”
I recently realized I had to do just that. I’m currently in the ‘regroup’ phase.
I think venus in scorpio sometimes craves danger. And which is more dangerous in relations then going with someone who’s taken? It also contains secrecy, and venus in scorpio craves that to. The Aqua/ Sag side of your personality loves to schok and be different, and Aqua is known to be the sign who symbolises other forms of sexuality, therefore may be your attraction to girls/ women. And they like partners who led them have an own life, without that they being much possessive over them. And let me tell you, married persons can’t be or may not be jealous over their extramarital lovers.