If you’ve ever had a hard core Plutonian for a friend, you know how demanding they can be. This is true, even if you’re Plutonian yourself! I can say this for sure because I have been on both sides of this issue.
Heavy Scorpio can obsess about just about anything, all day, all night, into infinity. If they happen to have Libra or emphasis on either of the Mercurial signs, they are going to want to talk about it. And talk about it. And talk about it.
Then there is the rage a person like this can build up. The fury. This energy can be white hot and if you’re the friend, you’re expected to process and contain it. The Plutonian can readily scorch your earth. You may actually want to die after a session with an intense person on a roll.
Now don’t lecture me because I am talking about myself here. I have overwhelmed, damned near consumed a number of people in my life, including other Plutonians. I started to learn about this here:
You just don’t realize you are killing the other person; or you do realize but your pain or rage is so deep, you can’t stop yourself. The person has to cut you off to survive.
I want to look at this from a new angle. Let’s say you’re the friend, who is up to your neck in the Plutonian’s intensity. What’s the best way to let this person know, they’re overwhelming you?
Is it possible to do this without seeing the relationship, severed, one way or the other?
Also, if you’re the Plutonian, do you attempt to track how badly you may be taxing another person?