Passive Aggressive: The Unconscious Mars

Mars attacks from spaceAstrologer, CF Perez, is interested in women and Mars. I was writing on her astrology mailing list some years ago. She was attracted how overtly I express Mars energy. We became friends.

We both feel that many women (and some men) have problems expressing their Mars energy. I’m talking about their anger, their hunter instinct, etc. This wreaks all kinds of havoc in their lives and in the world. But last night she came up with a new phrase…. “the unconscious Mars”.

“Yes, many women have no awareness of their Mars at all,” she said. “They have no idea how attacking they are. They just haven’t the slightest idea.”

“You mean they are bitchy and they don’t know it?” I asked, to verify I understood her correctly.

“Yes, that’s exactly what I mean.”

“That actually makes me feel better. Some people are intentionally nasty but others are unconscious? They are oblivious about how nasty they are, how biting and what not?”

“Yes. They have no awareness whatsoever,” she said.

“That explains a lot,” I said, as the information filtered in.

I recalled a conversation I had with Satori. “Maybe they don’t know they are a bitch,” Satori said. I didn’t understand her at the time.

“So they run around being nasty, no one wants anything to do with them and they have no idea why?”


“I know a lot of people like that. They think they are sweet but they’re horrible. They’re horrific.”

“Yes, hon. You would know a lot of them and there are a lot of them out there.”

“And you mean no idea?” I asked, just to be sure. “It just seems like a person would know.”

Satori confirmed, “None. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.”

Have you ever wanted to get away from someone because of their attacking / aggressiveness when they would never see themselves as aggressive?

70 thoughts on “Passive Aggressive: The Unconscious Mars”

  1. I know quite a few of “these” completely ignorant of the way they come across. I, on the other hand, embrace my viciousness, when needed. But I totally know when I am acting out, then with my cancer sun I feel bad about it later.

  2. I have not known too many of these women…if we’re on women….although one stands out for sure. a woman with a TUDE all the time it seemed. Remembering a childs birthday party at a roller skating rink. My daughter iris was invited and i went a long as these little ones were only 6 or 7 years old…many moons ago. well this was a way over stim place and the birthday boy was beyond over stimulated…adults thinking these crazy places are so fun for parties! AHHHHH! The youngin was just in a puddle of tears at this loud dark and strobey place sitting at the long table of friends and cake. The mother in his face and telling him what a baby he was for crying and demanding him to stop….oh man my mama bear kicked in and i pulled her aside and made her leave him alone in the most short and insistent way that I could muster with as much kindness as possible
    She never looked at me again. My Mars is in Scorpio. hers? No idea

  3. This is so great to know. I didn’t know these gals were completely checked out of their own behavior.

    So, what to do? I’ve got a gal in my book club, a lawyer by profession. She treats book club like a court room…..her perception of the book is the only correct perception.

    I am thinking of either quitting book club or telling her to stop her crazy ass prosecution of the readers. Thoughts?

    As background, I did have an email exchange with her that went absolutely nowhere. She remained oblivious. Is it folly to think a real convo would go differently?

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